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KylieSG · 09-30-2006, 01:51 PM

I don't know how the rest of you feel but lately my dating habits have become a little dry...

After one failed engagement and quite a few duce bigalow moments I am completely out of hope that the one for me is out there! Where have they all gone? To top it off I found out a week ago that my then fiance is now married to someone he has only known a span of three weeks. Doesn't that make me feel special!!

Maybe I am meant to be single...at least I have my girls...and a big gallon of rocky road.

Any advice for a lonely yorkietalker looking for love in all the wrong places?

doortego · 09-30-2006, 03:46 PM

I'm sorry that you are feeling down. I know that God has someone special for you. It's obvious that if your ex fiancee is the kind of person that would marry someone he has known only 3 weeks, he's not the guy for you. Just be sure you are active in your church and stay real close to the Lord. He knows all the right people and His will is right for you. God bless you.

luvdorkyyorkies · 09-30-2006, 04:42 PM

Well you know what they say "When your not looking, you will find them (him)"

So go out and do something just for yourself to make you feel better! Or better yet do something to make someone else feel better, even if you feel horrible! It works.....it really does.

It will happen.

simonandhallie · 09-30-2006, 04:47 PM

Stock up on Rocky Road

Just Kidding but I'm in the same boat. Dating is no fun. I'm at the point where I would rather stay home with Simon and Hallie in my pajamas! Good Luck to you~

KylieSG · 10-03-2006, 11:40 AM

Thanks for the replies! I really appreciate the comfort! Good luck in your dating simonandhallie and maybe we will both find what we are looking for or rather what God knows is right for us!

Much Love to my fellow yorkietalkers

Lexi Rae · 10-03-2006, 12:36 PM

dont you worry your pretty little head off ok... your a beautiful girl and when the time is right you will know it... just dont look for it... it will find you.
ive been there and it does hapepen.. i used to feel no one would ever want me again and i was wrong.... hang in there, mr. right is looking for you...

magnolia · 10-03-2006, 04:40 PM

I agree with everyone else - don't look so hard and before you know it, Mr. Right will find you

He is out there and he will be placed in your path before you know it!

irishawk · 10-03-2006, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by simonandhallie

Stock up on Rocky Road

Just Kidding but I'm in the same boat. Dating is no fun. I'm at the point where I would rather stay home with Simon and Hallie in my pajamas! Good Luck to you~

I'm with you on this one! It's getting to be too much effort to get all ready to go on dates with guys I know I'm not that into. Besides, I already have the perfect man at home.. lol.

KylieSG · 10-04-2006, 08:49 AM

I know what you mean irishawk it seems like all the good ones are taken!

Thank goodness for my girls cause otherwise I would be so lonely!! Another good reason to own a yorkie!!

Thanks for the compliment Lexi Rae! I promise I will take all your good advice and try not to look so hard. I just love my fellow yorkietalkers, always nice to have friends!

Rockster's Mom · 10-04-2006, 09:00 AM

Girl don't give up. I feeling the same way when I met my husband 2 years ago. Plus, my husband has a few single friends that are wonderful, but I think girls scare them because I never see the with a girl or he of he them dating anyone. Either that or they feel the same as you. Maybe you will run into them one day.

Baby Blessing · 10-04-2006, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by KylieSG

I know what you mean irishawk it seems like all the good ones are taken!

Thank goodness for my girls cause otherwise I would be so lonely!! Another good reason to own a yorkie!!

Thanks for the compliment Lexi Rae! I promise I will take all your good advice and try not to look so hard. I just love my fellow yorkietalkers, always nice to have friends!

Hi Kylie, nope all the good ones aren't taken, the Lord has that special Mr. Right One out there for you and one day you will meet him. What are your little girl yorkies names, wishing you a wonderful day and God's blessings along lifes way. Glad you found Yorkie Talk, so many wonderful folks here.
Patti and Baby Blessing

Tiggerwit · 10-04-2006, 02:33 PM

Don't even get me started......

KylieSG · 10-05-2006, 09:21 AM

I have one Yorkie Chloe, a Maltese Kylie and a Cocker Spaniel Bailey. They are the light in my life. If it weren't for them I would go stir crazy!!

I know I am young 25 and still in the prime of my life but for some reason I feel like I am constantly meeting men who want to run all over me or just aren't there for the commitment. This just might be a quarter life crisis

I will be okay as long as my girls can take cuddling with me

Bruce's_Mom · 10-05-2006, 10:21 AM

I know this feeling completely. I too am 25, it seems all my friends are getting married or otherwise settling down, and here I am dateless. For the past three years I have been on an off in a relationship with the most narcassistic jerk on the planet, it is clear that is never going to work out and I have pretty much given up on dating all together. I always meet these awful lawyer types (I guess that is what I get for going to law school) that are basically just wretched and into themselves. The best part is it seems that I am becoming a third wheel with most my pals because they prefer to only hang out with other couples. Anyway, I have resigned myself to it being just Bruce and I in it for the long term.

Shadow · 10-05-2006, 10:45 AM

Girl...enjoy your youth. Like other have said when you quit looking, love will find you!

09-30-2006, 01:51 PM	#1
KylieSG Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 41	Where have all the good ones gone.... I don't know how the rest of you feel but lately my dating habits have become a little dry... After one failed engagement and quite a few duce bigalow moments I am completely out of hope that the one for me is out there! Where have they all gone? To top it off I found out a week ago that my then fiance is now married to someone he has only known a span of three weeks. Doesn't that make me feel special!! Maybe I am meant to be single...at least I have my girls...and a big gallon of rocky road. Any advice for a lonely yorkietalker looking for love in all the wrong places? __________________ KYLIESG

09-30-2006, 03:46 PM	#2
doortego Little Bit & Buttons Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: US Posts: 2,160	For I know the plans I have for you, saith the Lord... I'm sorry that you are feeling down. I know that God has someone special for you. It's obvious that if your ex fiancee is the kind of person that would marry someone he has known only 3 weeks, he's not the guy for you. Just be sure you are active in your church and stay real close to the Lord. He knows all the right people and His will is right for you. God bless you.

10-03-2006, 11:40 AM	#5
KylieSG Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 41	Thanks for the replies! I really appreciate the comfort! Good luck in your dating simonandhallie and maybe we will both find what we are looking for or rather what God knows is right for us! Much Love to my fellow yorkietalkers __________________ KYLIESG

10-03-2006, 12:36 PM	#6
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	dont you worry your pretty little head off ok... your a beautiful girl and when the time is right you will know it... just dont look for it... it will find you. ive been there and it does hapepen.. i used to feel no one would ever want me again and i was wrong.... hang in there, mr. right is looking for you... __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

10-03-2006, 04:40 PM	#7
magnolia YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Mississippi Posts: 1,459	I agree with everyone else - don't look so hard and before you know it, Mr. Right will find you He is out there and he will be placed in your path before you know it! __________________ Suzi - mom to Gabby and Gage For Mickey

09-30-2006, 04:42 PM	#3
luvdorkyyorkies BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,681	Well you know what they say "When your not looking, you will find them (him)" So go out and do something just for yourself to make you feel better! Or better yet do something to make someone else feel better, even if you feel horrible! It works.....it really does. It will happen.

09-30-2006, 04:47 PM	#4
simonandhallie *I Love My Monkeys!* Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Falling Waters, WV Posts: 11,166	Stock up on Rocky Road Just Kidding but I'm in the same boat. Dating is no fun. I'm at the point where I would rather stay home with Simon and Hallie in my pajamas! Good Luck to you~

10-04-2006, 08:49 AM	#9
KylieSG Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 41	I know what you mean irishawk it seems like all the good ones are taken! Thank goodness for my girls cause otherwise I would be so lonely!! Another good reason to own a yorkie!! Thanks for the compliment Lexi Rae! I promise I will take all your good advice and try not to look so hard. I just love my fellow yorkietalkers, always nice to have friends! __________________ KYLIESG Last edited by KylieSG; 10-04-2006 at 08:51 AM.

10-04-2006, 09:00 AM	#10
Rockster's Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 1,279	Girl don't give up. I feeling the same way when I met my husband 2 years ago. Plus, my husband has a few single friends that are wonderful, but I think girls scare them because I never see the with a girl or he of he them dating anyone. Either that or they feel the same as you. Maybe you will run into them one day.

10-04-2006, 02:33 PM	#12
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	Don't even get me started...... __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy

10-05-2006, 09:21 AM	#13
KylieSG Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 41	I have one Yorkie Chloe, a Maltese Kylie and a Cocker Spaniel Bailey. They are the light in my life. If it weren't for them I would go stir crazy!! I know I am young 25 and still in the prime of my life but for some reason I feel like I am constantly meeting men who want to run all over me or just aren't there for the commitment. This just might be a quarter life crisis I will be okay as long as my girls can take cuddling with me __________________ KYLIESG

10-05-2006, 10:21 AM	#14
Bruce's_Mom YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 779	I know this feeling completely. I too am 25, it seems all my friends are getting married or otherwise settling down, and here I am dateless. For the past three years I have been on an off in a relationship with the most narcassistic jerk on the planet, it is clear that is never going to work out and I have pretty much given up on dating all together. I always meet these awful lawyer types (I guess that is what I get for going to law school) that are basically just wretched and into themselves. The best part is it seems that I am becoming a third wheel with most my pals because they prefer to only hang out with other couples. Anyway, I have resigned myself to it being just Bruce and I in it for the long term. __________________ Bruce's Dogster Page http://www.dogster.com/?177273

10-05-2006, 10:45 AM	#15
Shadow No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California Posts: 5,368	Girl...enjoy your youth. Like other have said when you quit looking, love will find you!