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Rockster's Mom · 09-12-2006, 10:15 AM

I need to vent because my fiance is getting tried of me freaking out. I am getting married this Saturday and this has been the week from hell already. Where shoud I start, lets see!! Oh the Jewerler did not put my rings together like I asked, the napkins I ordered are on back order, and lets not forget the car blew out a tire yesterday!!! Plus, I just learned my furture MIL has not made any reservations for the rehearsal dinner and wants my sis to handle it. I think she forgets my sis is making both cakes for the wedding and handling a whole lot of other things for me. I just irritates me that my MIL has failed to make the rehearsal dinner plans when that is all we asked her do. Heck, I gave her suggestions of places and the phone numbers, now hard was that to handle? I am so looking forward to the honeymoon, it is well deserved vacation.

Lou · 09-12-2006, 10:19 AM

You poor thing. I can understand how upset you are. Hope the wedding turns out beautifully and congratulations on you nuptials!

Timmy · 09-12-2006, 10:19 AM

aaaawww I hope things get better for you...just keep in mind that your wedding day is going to be the best no matter how your week is going. I am getting married next year and I can already feel the stress.

Lexi Rae · 09-12-2006, 10:20 AM

sorry to hear your stressing out...it will all work out, it really will.
take a deep breathe and try to relax. good luck and congrats to the both of you... i want to see pictures of the happy couple

suz · 09-12-2006, 10:22 AM

I can solve this problem in one word.......ELOPE!!!

Suz

sassypup · 09-12-2006, 10:24 AM

Sorry to hear that things are going badly. BUT you will have a wonderful day when all the things come together. THings are crazy days before your wedding, you know that

I rear ended a park car the day before my wedding if that makes you feel better-at the end, I had the BEST day of my life. Nothing else mattered. Enjoy your BIG moment!

Patti · 09-12-2006, 10:42 AM

Hope things calm down before wedding!!! All this hassle will make the day that more special.

Tiggerwit · 09-12-2006, 11:20 AM

breathe...1,2,3.... breathe 1,2,3.... deep breath in.....exhale...

Ok, everything is going to be ok. Relax... No big of a deal. Go to party store pick up some replacement napkins, not the end of the world. Rings can be fixed and put together the way you want them. If not before the wedding then after, it is fixable. At least the tire blew now then the day of the wedding. You already have the numbers of the of the restaurants so just call yourself and get it done. Take you 20 minutes tops and you'll know it's done and you'll get what you want.

Hang in there.... it will be well worth it.

red98vett · 09-12-2006, 11:24 AM

Poor girl - that's why my DIL Wanted to do her whole wedding by herself. She took no chances and we all did the 'after' work

Have a beautiful wedding - and good luck

RoxyJosMom · 09-12-2006, 11:29 AM

As hard as it seems now, someday you will look back and be able to laugh about it. Most everyone has at least one pre-wedding horror story to tell. So, when your day comes, just remember, IT IS YOUR DAY, SO RELAX, CELEBRATE AND ENJOY!!! You'll have your honeymoon for R & R. Congratulations and have a great time.

J_is_my_initial · 09-12-2006, 11:53 AM

Things happen but the wedding itself will be fine.
My dtr got married last Decemeber. The night of the rehearsal, she pulled her jeep around the corner of the chuch (coming from the reception hall) just as the groom was backing up and they crashed. Luckily just a fender bender and a light busted. Then the mom of the groom started talking about turning it in to the bride's insurance. Bride was stressed enough, and she just started crying till her daddy got there. Def a daddy's girl still. Wedding was fine though.

Josie's Mom · 09-12-2006, 12:58 PM

Don't worry, everything is going to turn out fine.

Hopefully, this will be it.
Just think how wounderful and perfect everthing else is going to be.

Book the rehersal dinner yourself, show your MIL just how great you really are.

Smile

you are doing a great job already. Feel proud.

This Saturday is going to be the greatest day of your life Best wishes!

Sadie's Mom · 09-14-2006, 11:51 AM

I missed this thread the first time around.....

Sorry you've had so much trouble....it will all turn out ok, though. Just think.....you're getting married! That's all that really matters!

09-12-2006, 10:15 AM	#1
Rockster's Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 1,279	Bad things happening 5 days before wedding!!!!! I need to vent because my fiance is getting tried of me freaking out. I am getting married this Saturday and this has been the week from hell already. Where shoud I start, lets see!! Oh the Jewerler did not put my rings together like I asked, the napkins I ordered are on back order, and lets not forget the car blew out a tire yesterday!!! Plus, I just learned my furture MIL has not made any reservations for the rehearsal dinner and wants my sis to handle it. I think she forgets my sis is making both cakes for the wedding and handling a whole lot of other things for me. I just irritates me that my MIL has failed to make the rehearsal dinner plans when that is all we asked her do. Heck, I gave her suggestions of places and the phone numbers, now hard was that to handle? I am so looking forward to the honeymoon, it is well deserved vacation.

09-12-2006, 10:19 AM	#2
Lou Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: A little town south of Chicago Posts: 4,525	You poor thing. I can understand how upset you are. Hope the wedding turns out beautifully and congratulations on you nuptials! __________________ http://www.its-a-yorkie-thing.com Gracie Skeeter Adie Tyler

09-12-2006, 10:20 AM	#4
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	sorry to hear your stressing out...it will all work out, it really will. take a deep breathe and try to relax. good luck and congrats to the both of you... i want to see pictures of the happy couple __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

09-12-2006, 10:22 AM	#5
suz Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Hesperia, CA Posts: 741	I can solve this problem in one word.......ELOPE!!! Suz __________________ Suz The more people I meet... The more I love my dogs!!!

09-12-2006, 10:42 AM	#7
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	Hope things calm down before wedding!!! All this hassle will make the day that more special. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

09-12-2006, 10:19 AM	#3
Timmy Mimi & Gabby too! Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Vineland, NJ Posts: 3,208	aaaawww I hope things get better for you...just keep in mind that your wedding day is going to be the best no matter how your week is going. I am getting married next year and I can already feel the stress.

09-12-2006, 10:24 AM	#6
sassypup Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: S. Ca Posts: 1,905	Sorry to hear that things are going badly. BUT you will have a wonderful day when all the things come together. THings are crazy days before your wedding, you know that I rear ended a park car the day before my wedding if that makes you feel better-at the end, I had the BEST day of my life. Nothing else mattered. Enjoy your BIG moment!

09-12-2006, 11:20 AM	#8
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	breathe...1,2,3.... breathe 1,2,3.... deep breath in.....exhale... Ok, everything is going to be ok. Relax... No big of a deal. Go to party store pick up some replacement napkins, not the end of the world. Rings can be fixed and put together the way you want them. If not before the wedding then after, it is fixable. At least the tire blew now then the day of the wedding. You already have the numbers of the of the restaurants so just call yourself and get it done. Take you 20 minutes tops and you'll know it's done and you'll get what you want. Hang in there.... it will be well worth it. __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy

09-12-2006, 11:24 AM	#9
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Poor girl - that's why my DIL Wanted to do her whole wedding by herself. She took no chances and we all did the 'after' work Have a beautiful wedding - and good luck __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

09-12-2006, 11:29 AM	#10
RoxyJosMom Love The Verminator! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ny Posts: 4,282	As hard as it seems now, someday you will look back and be able to laugh about it. Most everyone has at least one pre-wedding horror story to tell. So, when your day comes, just remember, IT IS YOUR DAY, SO RELAX, CELEBRATE AND ENJOY!!! You'll have your honeymoon for R & R. Congratulations and have a great time. __________________ Roxy loves Alphy Remi loves Millie [COLOR="Purple"]Mom to RoxyJo & Remington , Fozzy Bear & Chloe

09-12-2006, 11:53 AM	#11
J_is_my_initial YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Knoxville,Tennessee Posts: 3,073	Things happen but the wedding itself will be fine. My dtr got married last Decemeber. The night of the rehearsal, she pulled her jeep around the corner of the chuch (coming from the reception hall) just as the groom was backing up and they crashed. Luckily just a fender bender and a light busted. Then the mom of the groom started talking about turning it in to the bride's insurance. Bride was stressed enough, and she just started crying till her daddy got there. Def a daddy's girl still. Wedding was fine though. __________________ PAWPRINTS AND DOG HAIR ENHANCE MY PERSONAL STYLE.

09-12-2006, 12:58 PM	#12
Josie's Mom Jojo's & Junior's too! Donating YT Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Watsonville, CA Posts: 1,379	Don't worry, everything is going to turn out fine. Hopefully, this will be it. Just think how wounderful and perfect everthing else is going to be. Book the rehersal dinner yourself, show your MIL just how great you really are. Smile you are doing a great job already. Feel proud. This Saturday is going to be the greatest day of your life Best wishes! __________________ Josie, Jojo, Junior & Veronica ...No Home is Complete Without a Yorkie...or Two...better make that 3!..

09-14-2006, 11:51 AM	#13
Sadie's Mom Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Irving, TX Posts: 3,180	I missed this thread the first time around..... Sorry you've had so much trouble....it will all turn out ok, though. Just think.....you're getting married! That's all that really matters! __________________ Christie and Sadie