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Kona · 08-19-2006, 06:41 AM

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Things have been kind of "off" for the last few months. He's been completely swamped with work and hasn't had much time to spend with me. I've been bringing it up since it started, but last night he said that he thinks our only chance is if I move out so he can accomplish what he needs to and see how much he would miss me/need me. So today I begin that search for a new place. And it certainly isn't easy trying to find a place that will accept my 2 furbabies.

I know I'll be okay. I just had to get it off my chest.

newmommy · 08-19-2006, 06:47 AM

good luck. Its hard to start over on your own. I would say ahsta and be gone. jerk (((HUGS)))

Highlans · 08-19-2006, 07:22 AM

Sorry to hear. Can he not move and you stay with your furbies?

Kona · 08-19-2006, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Highlans

Sorry to hear. Can he not move and you stay with your furbies?

No, we, well, he, bought the house that we moved into in Jan. And plus, if I'm moving, I might as well move closer to work. The only reason I moved 45 min away from work was to live with him.

Highlans · 08-19-2006, 07:25 AM

Ah good luck then.

Shadow · 08-19-2006, 07:39 AM

I'm in California also and yes it is hard to find somewhere that excepts one let alone two dogs. We were renting a nice house(very resonably priced with a great landlord) and she decided to sell it. We couldn't find anything within out means that would. So we bought a 5th wheel and it is our home on wheels. So far we have lived three different areas. Which is one of the nice things about it.Also you get to see all different kind of dogs. You can move to wherever you want to be. Here is our *castle* Yep,I'm trailer trash and love almost every minute of it. Good luck in your move and with your relationship.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...1/000_0161.jpg

xtine · 08-19-2006, 09:20 AM

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years (and 2 months!

) and we are also trying to find a new place.. but everything almost everywhere (We live in Southern California).. is so freakin expensive!

im sorry to hear that things aren't going to well right now.. i hope nothing but the best for you and hope all goes well!

LuvMySissy · 08-19-2006, 09:33 AM

Michelle - I'm sorry to hear things aren't going so well. Perhaps this might be the signal for a fresh start. I hope that you get everything your heart desires. I'm so glad you have Kona and Bernie to help you through. The perfect place to life and everything with it is waiting for you out there.....

gypsyqueen · 08-19-2006, 10:14 AM

My husbands job requires travel so we puchased a 5th wheel I travel with him sometimes and wont give up the pets. I know everything will be perfect in about a year trust the gypsy.

Kona · 08-19-2006, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by xtine

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years (and 2 months!

) and we are also trying to find a new place.. but everything almost everywhere (We live in Southern California).. is so freakin expensive!

im sorry to hear that things aren't going to well right now.. i hope nothing but the best for you and hope all goes well!

Good luck in your search. My bf and I lived in SoCal during the first 4 years of our relationship. I love Socal. I'm sure you'll find something soon!

Kona · 08-19-2006, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by LuvMySissy

Michelle - I'm sorry to hear things aren't going so well. Perhaps this might be the signal for a fresh start. I hope that you get everything your heart desires. I'm so glad you have Kona and Bernie to help you through. The perfect place to life and everything with it is waiting for you out there.....

Thanks Jodie. I'm glad I have Kona and Bernie too. They'll be great to come home to!

Kona · 08-19-2006, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by gypsyqueen

My husbands job requires travel so we puchased a 5th wheel I travel with him sometimes and wont give up the pets. I know everything will be perfect in about a year trust the gypsy.

Thanks Gypsy.

peanut · 08-19-2006, 10:31 AM

I will put a couple of prayers in for you to find a new place close to work soon....I also want to tell you hang in there, sometimes things that dont look very good at the time, may be a blessing in the future....Good luck, I am far away from you, but if I can help let me know....

Baby Blessing · 08-19-2006, 10:36 AM

Hi Michelle, maybe you might think this situation over and come to realize that it all might be for the best. My prayers that you will find a nice place for you and your babies closer to your work. I looked at the pictures in your dogster, what darlings you have there. The little guy is just the cutest, you will be okay, just think positive. I always find that when the going gets tough to look to the Lord for his help and really lean on him, and things always have a way of turning around with his help and if they don't he sure helps to lighten the load. Give your babies a hug for me and best of luck to you and keep looking up. Patti and Baby Blessing
I am sure the Lord has a special someone that he wants you to spend your life with. Keep your eyes open and listen to your heart, along with his help.

IluvLucy · 08-19-2006, 11:55 AM

I'm sorry you're having to move, but I truly believe that when one door closes another one opens.

I pray that you'll find the perfect place for you and your furbabies closer to work. Someplace that will "feel" perfect the minute you walk in the door.

Good luck,

Kim & Lucy

08-19-2006, 06:41 AM	#1
Kona Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Bay Area, California Posts: 1,877	Moving out My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Things have been kind of "off" for the last few months. He's been completely swamped with work and hasn't had much time to spend with me. I've been bringing it up since it started, but last night he said that he thinks our only chance is if I move out so he can accomplish what he needs to and see how much he would miss me/need me. So today I begin that search for a new place. And it certainly isn't easy trying to find a place that will accept my 2 furbabies. I know I'll be okay. I just had to get it off my chest. __________________ Kona Bernie

08-19-2006, 06:47 AM	#2
newmommy Keep Me Away From eBay Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Arizona Posts: 2,109	good luck. Its hard to start over on your own. I would say ahsta and be gone. jerk (((HUGS))) __________________ There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face!!

08-19-2006, 07:22 AM	#3
Highlans Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Berkshire England Posts: 191	Sorry to hear. Can he not move and you stay with your furbies? __________________ Click for Robbie! Robbie exhausted on holiday

08-19-2006, 07:25 AM	#5
Highlans Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Berkshire England Posts: 191	Ah good luck then. __________________ Click for Robbie! Robbie exhausted on holiday

08-19-2006, 07:39 AM	#6
Shadow No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California Posts: 5,368	I'm in California also and yes it is hard to find somewhere that excepts one let alone two dogs. We were renting a nice house(very resonably priced with a great landlord) and she decided to sell it. We couldn't find anything within out means that would. So we bought a 5th wheel and it is our home on wheels. So far we have lived three different areas. Which is one of the nice things about it.Also you get to see all different kind of dogs. You can move to wherever you want to be. Here is our castle Yep,I'm trailer trash and love almost every minute of it. Good luck in your move and with your relationship.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...1/000_0161.jpg Last edited by Shadow; 08-19-2006 at 07:41 AM.

08-19-2006, 09:20 AM	#7
xtine Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: CA Posts: 1,406	I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years (and 2 months! ) and we are also trying to find a new place.. but everything almost everywhere (We live in Southern California).. is so freakin expensive! im sorry to hear that things aren't going to well right now.. i hope nothing but the best for you and hope all goes well!

08-19-2006, 09:33 AM	#8
LuvMySissy Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA Posts: 9,333	Michelle - I'm sorry to hear things aren't going so well. Perhaps this might be the signal for a fresh start. I hope that you get everything your heart desires. I'm so glad you have Kona and Bernie to help you through. The perfect place to life and everything with it is waiting for you out there..... __________________ Sissy & Angel

08-19-2006, 10:14 AM	#9
gypsyqueen Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Las Vegas. Posts: 955	Im sorry My husbands job requires travel so we puchased a 5th wheel I travel with him sometimes and wont give up the pets. I know everything will be perfect in about a year trust the gypsy.

08-19-2006, 10:31 AM	#13
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 7,895	I will put a couple of prayers in for you to find a new place close to work soon....I also want to tell you hang in there, sometimes things that dont look very good at the time, may be a blessing in the future....Good luck, I am far away from you, but if I can help let me know.... __________________ KIM

08-19-2006, 10:36 AM	#14
Baby Blessing Our Blessings R Many Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: In the shelter of God's Loving Care. Posts: 3,095 Blog Entries: 1	Hi Michelle, maybe you might think this situation over and come to realize that it all might be for the best. My prayers that you will find a nice place for you and your babies closer to your work. I looked at the pictures in your dogster, what darlings you have there. The little guy is just the cutest, you will be okay, just think positive. I always find that when the going gets tough to look to the Lord for his help and really lean on him, and things always have a way of turning around with his help and if they don't he sure helps to lighten the load. Give your babies a hug for me and best of luck to you and keep looking up. Patti and Baby Blessing I am sure the Lord has a special someone that he wants you to spend your life with. Keep your eyes open and listen to your heart, along with his help. Last edited by Baby Blessing; 08-19-2006 at 10:38 AM.

08-19-2006, 11:55 AM	#15
IluvLucy Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,438	devoted to Lucy! I'm sorry you're having to move, but I truly believe that when one door closes another one opens. I pray that you'll find the perfect place for you and your furbabies closer to work. Someplace that will "feel" perfect the minute you walk in the door. Good luck, Kim & Lucy