Long over due Appology !! - YorkieTalk.com Forums

dawn27 · 06-06-2013, 02:42 PM

As much as I hate to bring this up again, I must in order to make a public apology to Sariah and to the YT community and to those I hurt by my poor judgment.

My deepest apologies to Sariah and the YT community. I really had not intended on anyone getting hurt by my actions. Sadly I was wrong. I have had one very long week to reflect on my actions and this was not in any way a pleasant experience for me and I can imagine for Sariah either.

In my defense I honestly felt as if this person was not who she said she was and that they were not here for the right reasons. That they had only used the Internet photos to lie about having a Yorkie and might be only to cause trouble. Most of you who know of me and who interact with me here on YT know that I do not like conflict that regardless of how my times I find myself on the other end on a heated conversation and someone assumes the worse about me that I normally deal with it in a respectful way. But this time it was all me, I assumed the worse about someone, jumped to conclusions and took it way too far about something that was totally unfounded. I for one knows how that feels and wouldn't ever want to cause anyone that sort of hurt. I totally agree, I should have handled it differently, defiantly more respectfully and I am sorry if I hurt anyone by my actions and I deeply regret the childish name calling. It was totally uncalled for and I really am truly sorry.

I have such deep regrets in even starting the thread. I simply went with my gut feeling and as you all can see it was my mouth and not my gut feeling that has me here today with the most sincere apologies to you all.

I can see now that actions really do speak louder that words and that I took my rant a little too far. It just goes to show you that we are all human, that we made mistakes. What makes us different from others is how we own up to them and can be human enough to make it right. I did say that if I was wrong that I would own up to it .....well I was wrong. . . And this is Me" owning up to it . . And I do hope that Sariah and the YT community can forgive me. I am not a bad person I just made an honest mistake and I hope that you all can look past it and welcome me back. I would really hate to loose the friendships that I have gained here on YT over my own stupidity and lack of good judgment. I know that some of you were hurt and shocked by my actions and I can understand why, please forgive me.

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I Wuv yorkies · 06-06-2013, 02:53 PM

I am sorry to!! Are we Friends again?

Buster Brown · 06-06-2013, 03:07 PM

Live - Learn - Love YORKIES

cindersellie · 06-06-2013, 03:16 PM

Welcome back dawn, You were missed. It must have been an awful week for you. I am so addicted now that I would've went crazy! Your apology was eloquent, well said. Have fun catching up on a weeks worth of YT threads.

So glad you're here!

JasmineNoelle · 06-06-2013, 03:54 PM

I haven't a clue what you are talking about and don't want to know. However, I know I have made many, many mistakes throughout my 60 yrs. and know I will make many more. Thank the Lord my friends, family and others have forgiven me lots. Kudos on your apology and welcome back to YT.

sugarmamma · 06-06-2013, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by JasmineNoelle

I haven't a clue what you are talking about and don't want to know. However, I know I have made many, many mistakes throughout my 60 yrs. and know I will make many more. Thank the Lord my friends, family and others have forgiven me lots. Kudos on your apology and welcome back to YT.

For not knowing what this was about that is a very remarkable statement

Welcome back Dawn! Maybe YT is becoming a kinder gentler place

Nancy1999 · 06-06-2013, 04:27 PM

Welcome back Dawn, it takes a big person to admit their mistakes and try and do better. I hope we can all put this behind us and move forward.

Chuckm11 · 06-06-2013, 04:32 PM

I don't really understand either but, being 55 I've made planty of mistakes myself.
That was a well written and heartfelt apology. Welcome back!

kjc · 06-06-2013, 04:38 PM

Welcome back!

Wallee · 06-06-2013, 04:49 PM

Welcome back Dawn. Your appolgy was very well written and heartfelt. Life is always a learning experience. Especially when it comes to relating to others. We get better and better at it as we age.

JANICE C · 06-06-2013, 04:59 PM

Welcome back Dawn

yorkietalkjilly · 06-06-2013, 05:06 PM

Welcome back, Dawn. Everybody makes mistakes and not one of us here hasn't at one time or another crossed a line or made mistakes, here and elsewhere.

lovespandp · 06-06-2013, 05:38 PM

Welcome back Dawn. You were missed. I'm so glad to see this- it takes a good person to own it and try to make it right. ( speaking from personal expierence) We all make mistakes and do things that sometimes dont make sense- we are all human and should be treated as such.

Glad you are back- you will need another week just to catch up.

horsnaround · 06-06-2013, 06:10 PM

Welcome back.

McheleM · 06-06-2013, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

Welcome back, Dawn. Everybody makes mistakes and not one of us here hasn't at one time or another crossed a line or made mistakes, here and elsewhere.

Amen to this!!!

Welcome back.

06-06-2013, 02:42 PM	#1
dawn27 2+2=4 X the Love ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Bean Town Ohio Posts: 9,456 Blog Entries: 1	Long over due Appology !! As much as I hate to bring this up again, I must in order to make a public apology to Sariah and to the YT community and to those I hurt by my poor judgment. My deepest apologies to Sariah and the YT community. I really had not intended on anyone getting hurt by my actions. Sadly I was wrong. I have had one very long week to reflect on my actions and this was not in any way a pleasant experience for me and I can imagine for Sariah either. In my defense I honestly felt as if this person was not who she said she was and that they were not here for the right reasons. That they had only used the Internet photos to lie about having a Yorkie and might be only to cause trouble. Most of you who know of me and who interact with me here on YT know that I do not like conflict that regardless of how my times I find myself on the other end on a heated conversation and someone assumes the worse about me that I normally deal with it in a respectful way. But this time it was all me, I assumed the worse about someone, jumped to conclusions and took it way too far about something that was totally unfounded. I for one knows how that feels and wouldn't ever want to cause anyone that sort of hurt. I totally agree, I should have handled it differently, defiantly more respectfully and I am sorry if I hurt anyone by my actions and I deeply regret the childish name calling. It was totally uncalled for and I really am truly sorry. I have such deep regrets in even starting the thread. I simply went with my gut feeling and as you all can see it was my mouth and not my gut feeling that has me here today with the most sincere apologies to you all. I can see now that actions really do speak louder that words and that I took my rant a little too far. It just goes to show you that we are all human, that we made mistakes. What makes us different from others is how we own up to them and can be human enough to make it right. I did say that if I was wrong that I would own up to it .....well I was wrong. . . And this is Me" owning up to it . . And I do hope that Sariah and the YT community can forgive me. I am not a bad person I just made an honest mistake and I hope that you all can look past it and welcome me back. I would really hate to loose the friendships that I have gained here on YT over my own stupidity and lack of good judgment. I know that some of you were hurt and shocked by my actions and I can understand why, please forgive me. . __________________ Mommy to: Quincy, & Ruby Bella / Miah & Brandi Gone but Never Forgotten Visit: Bella Dawns for all of your Custom Pet Wear needs.

06-06-2013, 02:53 PM	#2
I Wuv yorkies YT Young Pup Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: With my Dogs Posts: 1,125 Blog Entries: 6	I am sorry to!! Are we Friends again? __________________ What's that furry thing by my feet, it's the love of my life. ~Hurley and KC R.I.P Kudos and Cindy~

06-06-2013, 03:07 PM	#3
Buster Brown Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Toluca Lake, CA Posts: 5,491	Live - Learn - Love YORKIES __________________ CarolynBuster Brown "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

06-06-2013, 03:16 PM	#4
cindersellie Tiny♥HoldsLotsOfLove Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,998	Welcome back dawn, You were missed. It must have been an awful week for you. I am so addicted now that I would've went crazy! Your apology was eloquent, well said. Have fun catching up on a weeks worth of YT threads. So glad you're here! __________________ Owned by Cinders

06-06-2013, 03:54 PM	#5
JasmineNoelle YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: USA Posts: 2,774 Blog Entries: 1	I haven't a clue what you are talking about and don't want to know. However, I know I have made many, many mistakes throughout my 60 yrs. and know I will make many more. Thank the Lord my friends, family and others have forgiven me lots. Kudos on your apology and welcome back to YT. __________________ Jasmine's, Prissy's and Maggie Mae's Mommy

06-06-2013, 04:27 PM	#7
Nancy1999 I ♥ Joey & Ralphie! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Arizona Posts: 25,396 Blog Entries: 2	Welcome back Dawn, it takes a big person to admit their mistakes and try and do better. I hope we can all put this behind us and move forward. __________________ NancyJoey Proud members of the CrAzYcLuB and YAP! ** Just Say No to Puppymills – Join YAP! Yorkshire Terrier Club of America – Breeder Referrals

06-06-2013, 04:32 PM	#8
Chuckm11 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2013 Location: Williamsburg, Ky. Posts: 31	I don't really understand either but, being 55 I've made planty of mistakes myself. That was a well written and heartfelt apology. Welcome back!

06-06-2013, 04:38 PM	#9
kjc I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 18,872	Welcome back! __________________ Kat Chloe Lizzy PeekABooTinkerbell SapphireInfinity

06-06-2013, 04:49 PM	#10
Wallee Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: whitby, On, Canada Posts: 1,129	Welcome back Dawn. Your appolgy was very well written and heartfelt. Life is always a learning experience. Especially when it comes to relating to others. We get better and better at it as we age. __________________ Cindy, Walleeand Summer https://www.facebook.com/5TailsBoutique?ref=tn_tnmn

06-06-2013, 04:59 PM	#11
JANICE C Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: MA Posts: 624	Welcome back Dawn

06-06-2013, 05:06 PM	#12
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	Welcome back, Dawn. Everybody makes mistakes and not one of us here hasn't at one time or another crossed a line or made mistakes, here and elsewhere. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

06-06-2013, 05:38 PM	#13
lovespandp ♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca Posts: 10,026	Welcome back Dawn. You were missed. I'm so glad to see this- it takes a good person to own it and try to make it right. ( speaking from personal expierence) We all make mistakes and do things that sometimes dont make sense- we are all human and should be treated as such. Glad you are back- you will need another week just to catch up. __________________ "People with nothing to hide don't usually feel the need to say so."

06-06-2013, 06:10 PM	#14
horsnaround ♥Trained by my pups♥ Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: with my yorkies Posts: 11,726 Blog Entries: 1	Welcome back. __________________ loving life with my furry friends