Devestated

[MindieRose]

So we just moved a few weeks ago. Some of you may remember when I was having problems with my neighbor before. They hated animals and moved in a couple of years after we did. We have 3 horses, 3 goats, the 5 dogs, and a cat. Well long story short, he got us in trouble for not having enough acreage for our horses, and we had no idea that we didnt because our realtor told us he did his homework when we were buying the house and we were fine. So we find another house, just get moved in (well, at least half way so far) and I call today to get the process going on my kennel license. I had called before hand and they had said that we would be fine, we are in the country, not in city limits, and it was all good. Today I call, and they said we need 10 acres!!! We have 5 1/2, 2 leased from the neighbor for the horses. I cannot unbuy my house. I cannot get a kennel license. 4 of my 5 dogs are staying with my mom until I could get things figured out, but my neighbors here were unhappy when they found out we have 3 horses and 5 dogs, even though they have a large dog and a horse. I am just so unhappy right now. I have been trying to be so positive with this change, but it has been one thing after another. How do I choose between my dogs?? I have had Cleo, Joe, and Lola the longest. Then Diesel and Lily. Cleo is the most attached to me, Lola is totally hooked on dh. Joe I think would prefer to be an only dog. He doesn't play much with the others, and gets jealous easily. My grandma has his brother, and my aunt always rants on how she wants one just like him. So there is a possibility. Then there is the 2 yorkies. Keeping Cleo and Lola, I could only keep one of them. On top of the fact that I LOVE them, I also got them to breed as well. I am thinking I could find another home for Diesel, and have a contract that I could still use him to breed? I don't know, I am just so upset by this right now. Already we have had the basement flood from a burst pipe, the garbage disposal went out, and the pesky neighbors that seemed like they were sent from heaven when we first met them turned out to be quite the opposite.
It just seems like everything is against us right now. In fact, I was so upset yesterday because I had made a deposit in my checking account the day before, and because it was after 2, it didn't post until the next day, and everything that went through that day overdrafted, over $300 in fees!!! My bank has never done that! And I have a house payment next week, electric bill, and 6 kids to feed! I went to the bank, and the lady was understanding that helped me, and even took a copy of my receipt that I got at the bank that stated that my account was in good standing when I made the deposit, but whoever was higher above her would not approve it to reverse the fees. I don't even know how I drove home through the tears.
I am just having one of those days where I just want to run away. I don't mean from my family, I want to take them with me and just run, but that won't help. And I would never really do it. I am just so overwhelmed with unpacked boxes, no room to put anything, the basement needs to finished for more bedrooms asap, all that money being taken from my account, and now needing to rehome 2 of my dogs.
I seriously need a lot of prayer to get through this. It just feels like the world is falling out from under me.

[chachi]

I am sorry your going through such difficult times. I hope everything gets better soon. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers

[Mom to Hot Rod]

I am so very sorry that you are going thru this. I hope you can find a good resolution. Hugs.

[cindyvalente]

I am new to Yorkie Talk. I was getting ready to vent myself when I saw your posting. All I can say is Hang in there, I know how you feel, I've been there myself. It is tuff out there. But just say to your self what doens't break me, only makes me stronger.
I must say I almost cried reading your posting. I hope you find a good home for your babies, I wished i lived near you I would take either of them in a heart beat, I am dying for a little girl.
Good Luck!!!

[bchgirl]

Oh wow...when it rains it pours sometimes, doesn't it?

Hopefully you have relatives who would love to have the dogs and you'll still be a part of their lives.

Good luck...it's gotta get better.

[LuvmyYorkies2]

I'm so sorry you're going through that. It is a lot just to make it but to have insensitive people around you doesn't help! I pray things turn around for you soon!!

[ARCHIE]

When it rains it just seem to pour at times.
You certainly have to many things to handle at once no wonder
your feeeling overwelmed and stressed out.
Try and take one thing at a time and work it out.
I certainly would give that realtor a ring and give him
a piece of my mind and also have a word with his boss!
He has no right to sell property telling lies or giving wrong
information.
Best of luck to you. I do hope your babies can stay with
relatives so you can continue to see them.
Feel better soon. I hope you can work things out to your
advantage.

Hugs,

[MindieRose]

Originally Posted by ARCHIE

When it rains it just seem to pour at times.
You certainly have to many things to handle at once no wonder
your feeeling overwelmed and stressed out.
Try and take one thing at a time and work it out.
I certainly would give that realtor a ring and give him
a piece of my mind and also have a word with his boss!
He has no right to sell property telling lies or giving wrong
information.
Best of luck to you. I do hope your babies can stay with
relatives so you can continue to see them.
Feel better soon. I hope you can work things out to your
advantage.

Hugs,

I called the association of realtors and as it turns out, this guy never associated himself with them at all. He didn't want to pay the annual membership fee to join, so making a complaint to them did nothing. He worked one of the biggest real estate businesses, and used his bosses ID to log into the mls to send out listings to me.
Yeah, I am wishing I just would have done all the homework myself and dug into things deeper. Apparently you can't take anyones word for much.

[Little Bit]

I am so sorry things are so bad for you right now. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

[paulalowe6]

I will be praying for you and your family. Your situation is so sad. Everything happens to us for a reason, be strong, pray, all will turn out okay.
Paula Halle Brutis

[spr377]

WOW! You are going through so much! It seems that there should be some recourse against your realtor, even if he isn't associated with whom you thought. Best of luck with everything....prayers are with you!!

[a2luckygirl]

Ah, hun, sounds like you just can't get a break right now! Hopefully sunny skies come your way very soon- and you have a run of good luck!!It will get better in time!!
Wishing you the best!!

[celstu1]

Im so sorry .... my prayers are with you!

[Connie]

OMGosh...I'm so sorry for all the trials and tribulations that are in your life right now! I will pray that somehow this can be smoothed out and you can get your kennel license. I don't know how that realtor sleeps at night! Sending lots of hugs and I'll be praying that you have some good news and a huge weight lifted off your shoulders...and that you can keep all your furbabies. Bless your heart!

[Saleswman]

its insurance that realtors have for when they make screwups and this is one of those times