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tgunn541 · 06-08-2009, 10:15 AM

Our Dear Sweet Lilli

was hit by a car who never stopped. How devistated we are. My husband & I can't sleep~ he dreams of her. I find myself looking for her in the house. Thinking we see her in the yard. Are we lossing our minds?? Wishful thinking? Just so use to her being here with us. We miss her~ as she was with us always. Shopping, yard work, childcare, feeding the cows & horses~ everything!! She was part of us. She still is. I feel for all of you out there who have lost a dear pet, as they are part of our family. Such an emptiness inside they leave us with.
I will cherish our Dear Sweet Lilli forever. What a paw print she left on us all!!

happy bunny · 06-08-2009, 10:23 AM

Oh my goodness... I'm so sorry for you and your husband. That is so sad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

cynsir · 06-08-2009, 12:57 PM

I lost my baby Max to a heart attack, he was only 14 months old and it happened during surgery. This happened 6/1, the first three days were the worst. I couldn't eat nor sleep. My eyes were just red from crying. After the first three days, I started thinking of the fun things that we used to do. I even wrote "Letter to Max". That did help and leaving some of his toys around helps me.

You have my deepest sympathy. One of the members said that Max was running around on all four legs on the rainbow bridge. That helped. So maybe Max has a new friend in Lilli to run around with?

BonBon · 06-08-2009, 01:14 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Lilli.

zoeybear · 06-08-2009, 03:49 PM

So sorry to hear about your Lilli. I hope you find peace soon.

Patti · 06-08-2009, 06:34 PM

I am so sorry.

Yorkie_Mama · 06-08-2009, 07:13 PM

I am sorry for your loss .. It has taken me a Year to be able to talk about kissy and Nemo With out crying . Your not going crazy gone from body but not from you heart

slk77 · 06-08-2009, 08:46 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. We all go thru the different stages of mourning.... the first step is always denial.... our heart don't always understand as what reality may be. Our hearts long for the little ones to be or do what they normally do when they were physically here. My baby had been gone for more than year and I still sometimes think I saw him running around my apt.... my mind had accepted what happened but my heart seem to have a big challenge of letting go.....

Its never an easy to deal with death of a love one... it seem even harder when they go so unexpectedly. We had no time to prepare for the shock.... and the many emotions that comes after.

I hope it bring you some comfort to know you are not alone in feeling the way you feel. What bring me a smile is to know I feel this way is because I loved so deeply.... and I couldn't think of a better reason ! I now try to celebrate the feeling because I had a chance to love my baby and my baby had a chance (thou too short) to be in my life.

May God bring you the much needed comfort... may He bring healing and from this we learned to cherish everything even more.
Sandy

gunnar08 · 06-08-2009, 09:16 PM

Deepest condolences on your loss.

Cheryl1022 · 06-09-2009, 09:44 AM

It is so hard to read this since we lost our little 1 year old yorkie in March and the wound is still very fresh...my heart breaks for you and your husband over losing you little Lilli...I know she is with our little Theo running carefree and having so much fun...I can't help but feel bitter toward the driver of that car, how could they keep going like that...shame on them... May your pain ease everyday and our prayers are with you...

4doggiemama · 06-09-2009, 08:51 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. R.I.P. little Lilli.

luvfla · 06-10-2009, 04:28 AM

My heart aches for you & your husband.

Llslk1969 · 06-10-2009, 08:57 AM

My husband and I are so sad for you. We had a similar situation about 13 years ago and we still think of our Cera. We try to think of all the happy memories and not that moment that it happened. The person that hit her did not stop either, and my husband saw it, he was with Cera. She saw a squirrel and took off across the street. Happened in a moment. We do know what you are going through, know the pain, and we are so sorry that anyone has to go through this. You will be in our thoughts and prayers, you will get better, but it will take time.
Linda

06-08-2009, 10:15 AM	#1
tgunn541 YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Rogue River,Oregon USA Posts: 6 Blog Entries: 1	My Sweet Lilli Bird Our Dear Sweet Lilli was hit by a car who never stopped. How devistated we are. My husband & I can't sleep~ he dreams of her. I find myself looking for her in the house. Thinking we see her in the yard. Are we lossing our minds?? Wishful thinking? Just so use to her being here with us. We miss her~ as she was with us always. Shopping, yard work, childcare, feeding the cows & horses~ everything!! She was part of us. She still is. I feel for all of you out there who have lost a dear pet, as they are part of our family. Such an emptiness inside they leave us with. I will cherish our Dear Sweet Lilli forever. What a paw print she left on us all!! Last edited by tgunn541; 06-08-2009 at 10:17 AM. Reason: miss spelled words

06-08-2009, 12:57 PM	#3
cynsir The 3 Musketeers Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Cloquet, MN Posts: 738 Blog Entries: 1	I lost my baby Max to a heart attack, he was only 14 months old and it happened during surgery. This happened 6/1, the first three days were the worst. I couldn't eat nor sleep. My eyes were just red from crying. After the first three days, I started thinking of the fun things that we used to do. I even wrote "Letter to Max". That did help and leaving some of his toys around helps me. You have my deepest sympathy. One of the members said that Max was running around on all four legs on the rainbow bridge. That helped. So maybe Max has a new friend in Lilli to run around with? __________________ Cindy and Misty and Mazie and Cassie Max (3/31/08 - 6/1/09)

06-08-2009, 01:14 PM	#4
BonBon Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: With my yorkies Posts: 10,350	I am so sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Lilli. __________________ He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. -- Author Unknown

06-08-2009, 03:49 PM	#5
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	So sorry to hear about your Lilli. I hope you find peace soon. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

06-08-2009, 06:34 PM	#6
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I am so sorry. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

06-08-2009, 10:23 AM	#2
happy bunny Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Derby, KS Posts: 204	Oh my goodness... I'm so sorry for you and your husband. That is so sad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

06-08-2009, 07:13 PM	#7
Yorkie_Mama YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Chico,California Posts: 597	I am sorry for your loss .. It has taken me a Year to be able to talk about kissy and Nemo With out crying . Your not going crazy gone from body but not from you heart __________________ Dog show Rookie

06-08-2009, 08:46 PM	#8
slk77 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: New York Posts: 59	I am so sorry for your loss. We all go thru the different stages of mourning.... the first step is always denial.... our heart don't always understand as what reality may be. Our hearts long for the little ones to be or do what they normally do when they were physically here. My baby had been gone for more than year and I still sometimes think I saw him running around my apt.... my mind had accepted what happened but my heart seem to have a big challenge of letting go..... Its never an easy to deal with death of a love one... it seem even harder when they go so unexpectedly. We had no time to prepare for the shock.... and the many emotions that comes after. I hope it bring you some comfort to know you are not alone in feeling the way you feel. What bring me a smile is to know I feel this way is because I loved so deeply.... and I couldn't think of a better reason ! I now try to celebrate the feeling because I had a chance to love my baby and my baby had a chance (thou too short) to be in my life. May God bring you the much needed comfort... may He bring healing and from this we learned to cherish everything even more. Sandy

06-08-2009, 09:16 PM	#9
gunnar08 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Castro Valley, Ca. USA Posts: 513	Deepest condolences on your loss. __________________ I'm Donna. DH is Mike, son is Grant & is Gunnar WE all Gunnar Lee . 7.9Lbs of lovable Terror

06-09-2009, 09:44 AM	#10
Cheryl1022 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Staten Island NY Posts: 115	our loved ones It is so hard to read this since we lost our little 1 year old yorkie in March and the wound is still very fresh...my heart breaks for you and your husband over losing you little Lilli...I know she is with our little Theo running carefree and having so much fun...I can't help but feel bitter toward the driver of that car, how could they keep going like that...shame on them... May your pain ease everyday and our prayers are with you... __________________ Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain Love Cheryl

06-09-2009, 08:51 PM	#11
4doggiemama Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: KS Posts: 3,290	I am so sorry for your loss. R.I.P. little Lilli. __________________ Joanne Eli ChipperEva Snowboy Rosie(R.I.P. 1996-July 29, 2013) Cocoa(R.I.P 1998-April 26, 2012):

06-10-2009, 04:28 AM	#12
luvfla YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Satellite Beach, FL Posts: 3,691	My heart aches for you & your husband.

06-10-2009, 08:57 AM	#13
Llslk1969 Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Colorado Posts: 15	Heart Breaks for You My husband and I are so sad for you. We had a similar situation about 13 years ago and we still think of our Cera. We try to think of all the happy memories and not that moment that it happened. The person that hit her did not stop either, and my husband saw it, he was with Cera. She saw a squirrel and took off across the street. Happened in a moment. We do know what you are going through, know the pain, and we are so sorry that anyone has to go through this. You will be in our thoughts and prayers, you will get better, but it will take time. Linda