3 weeks god nervous breaksown Bennie and Tes gone! - YorkieTalk.com Forums

yorkyluver · 06-04-2008, 11:25 PM

AS many of you know my babies were takin in 5 min, believed to be a coyote. My husband let them out the front door, Saw rabbits and gone, 3 weeks now, I have MS. I feel so sick. The stress is more than I can cope with. I feel so lonely without my Bennie. 10 yrs. devotion. Married to pilot Never home. Just long enough t0 jepardize my babies. It cost them thier lives.I feel alone without my devoted Bennie. I cannnot seem to function. P S I'm really really off today. The Vet sent me Happy Birthday cards, OM JUst to much. HELP I NEVER DID RECOVER MY BENNIE!

Suzy · 06-05-2008, 03:18 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. That has to be one of the most difficult things any of us can go through. I will be thinking of you during this difficult time.

bchgirl · 06-05-2008, 03:48 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. My first one passed at 13 months. I was devastated and missed him so much. While some may think it was too soon...within a month I got another. Not a replacement...but one to take my mind off missing Trace and make me smile again. Perhaps it would help you if you got another.

Take care ~

red98vett · 06-05-2008, 03:56 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkyluver

AS many of you know my babies were takin in 5 min, believed to be a coyote. My husband let them out the front door, Saw rabbits and gone, 3 weeks now, I have MS. I feel so sick. The stress is more than I can cope with. I feel so lonely without my Bennie. 10 yrs. devotion. Married to pilot Never home. Just long enough t0 jepardize my babies. It cost them thier lives.I feel alone without my devoted Bennie. I cannnot seem to function. P S I'm really really off today. The Vet sent me Happy Birthday cards, OM JUst to much. HELP I NEVER DID RECOVER MY BENNIE!

I'm sooooooooooooooooo sorry ! I read your other post and my heart goes out to you. Bless your heart - you really need some prayers and a hug - do you have family to help you thru this ??

Yorkie Luv of 3 · 06-05-2008, 03:58 AM

I'm just so sorry for your loss,, God Love Ya!

a2luckygirl · 06-05-2008, 04:57 AM

Ah, I know you must be so sad! I am sorry about theis terrible accident.

Do you think you are ready for a new pet?? It might help take away some of the time you have thinking of your loss. And provide you with some company!

You know what is best for you! You are grieving a LOSS IN YOUR FAMILY!
hugs to you!

ARCHIE · 06-05-2008, 05:03 AM

I can feel what you are going through but you can't change it.
Your husband, I'm sure, thought he was doing the right thing.
Horrible accidents happen unfortunately. I am so sorry for your
loss. It will take time for your heart to heal. It's important to
somehow get you mind off of this tragedy. Only time will make
it better. Please try hard to keep busy.

Patti · 06-05-2008, 05:10 AM

My heart goes out to you, it must be so difficult to bear this on top of your health problem and feeling so isolated. Your husband must feel just horrible but God had plans for your babies that we cannot understand. I wish there was something I could do to help you thriugh this. When you are ready to open your heart for another baby or 2 it will help ease the pain and fill your days with some moments of happiness. Hugs to you.

Yorkieforme · 06-05-2008, 05:12 AM

Your pain comes through in your words...I am sure your husband is ridden with guilt himself....perhaps some grief counselling....talk with a priest / minister...
Sending you many hugs and prayers....

4doggiemama · 06-05-2008, 05:26 AM

I've been wondering about you. Do you have a difficult time getting out since you have MS? Please, by the desperation in your word you really need to speak to a counselor, IMO. Is it possible that you might get yourself another baby? Just think that you would have an soft warm little wiggly body to hold and help you think about something else. IMO you soooooo need a distraction. I will be thinking about you and praying for you today. Wish I was closer and could stop in and see you. Love and hugs.

Lexi Rae · 06-05-2008, 05:50 AM

god bless you sweetie.. please take care of yourself.. hugs to you, im so
sorry

yorkieusa · 06-05-2008, 01:26 PM

It has got to be so lonely for you. Please take care of yourself though. I know your heart has a big hole in it, but I would seriously think about getting another in a few weeks, month or so...when you feel you might be able to handle it with your grief. I had Muffin for 14 yrs and she was loved more than anything. Before a month was past, I had to have another yorkie to love. I think you have the love to give another yorkie, too.

joy and bella · 06-05-2008, 01:32 PM

oh you poor thing! i am sooo very sorry for your loss! perhaps a new dog would be good for you, obviously not to replace your loved ones but to give you a companion and something to love. i know you are prob not ready...but it is an idea! im sooo sorry again!!!! god bless!!

saphire · 06-05-2008, 03:14 PM

I wish I could help you somehow. I have been wondering how you are. My heart aches for you. I think everyone is right in saying, maybe you should get another yorkie. I know it could never replace the babies you lost, but it could heal your heart, and you have so much love to give another baby.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sheilagh

deb22 · 06-05-2008, 03:47 PM

My thoughts and prayers are going out to you. I've often thought of you since you first posted. I am so sorry you are going thru this. I know it makes it worse if you are alone all the time. It gets to me too. If you need to talk just PM me. Getting a new baby will fill your hours with so much. It might be just the thing for you.

06-04-2008, 11:25 PM	#1
yorkyluver Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Battle Ground, WA Posts: 13	3 weeks god nervous breaksown Bennie and Tes gone! AS many of you know my babies were takin in 5 min, believed to be a coyote. My husband let them out the front door, Saw rabbits and gone, 3 weeks now, I have MS. I feel so sick. The stress is more than I can cope with. I feel so lonely without my Bennie. 10 yrs. devotion. Married to pilot Never home. Just long enough t0 jepardize my babies. It cost them thier lives.I feel alone without my devoted Bennie. I cannnot seem to function. P S I'm really really off today. The Vet sent me Happy Birthday cards, OM JUst to much. HELP I NEVER DID RECOVER MY BENNIE!

06-05-2008, 03:18 AM	#2
Suzy 2 Pups=Double Trouble! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Iowa Posts: 6,581	I am so sorry for your loss. That has to be one of the most difficult things any of us can go through. I will be thinking of you during this difficult time. __________________ Suzy Emma & Milli What's better than loving a yorkie? Loving two yorkies! Milli 's Remi!

06-05-2008, 03:48 AM	#3
bchgirl Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: at da beach Posts: 15,444 Blog Entries: 2	I am so sorry for your loss. My first one passed at 13 months. I was devastated and missed him so much. While some may think it was too soon...within a month I got another. Not a replacement...but one to take my mind off missing Trace and make me smile again. Perhaps it would help you if you got another. Take care ~ __________________ Deb, Reese, Reggie, Frazier, Libby, Sidney, & Bodie Trace & Ramsey who watch over us www.biewersbythebay.com

06-05-2008, 03:58 AM	#5
Yorkie Luv of 3 Ayla now makes it 4!!! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Louisiana(home) & Texas(work) Posts: 1,711	I'm just so sorry for your loss,, God Love Ya! __________________ Cricket~Proud Petite Pup! Daisy~Proud TeaPot!! & Trixie ~Texas Girl & Ayla~Cherokee Baby! Yorkies!!! What's Not to Love!

06-05-2008, 04:57 AM	#6
a2luckygirl YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: HASTINGS, NE- 4 NOW!!! Posts: 2,208	Ah, I know you must be so sad! I am sorry about theis terrible accident. Do you think you are ready for a new pet?? It might help take away some of the time you have thinking of your loss. And provide you with some company! You know what is best for you! You are grieving a LOSS IN YOUR FAMILY! hugs to you! __________________ :I PLAYING....THE BANJO........ AND KISSING MY MOMMY:kiss3

06-05-2008, 05:03 AM	#7
ARCHIE No Longer A Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NEW YORK Posts: 16,218	I can feel what you are going through but you can't change it. Your husband, I'm sure, thought he was doing the right thing. Horrible accidents happen unfortunately. I am so sorry for your loss. It will take time for your heart to heal. It's important to somehow get you mind off of this tragedy. Only time will make it better. Please try hard to keep busy.

06-05-2008, 05:10 AM	#8
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	My heart goes out to you, it must be so difficult to bear this on top of your health problem and feeling so isolated. Your husband must feel just horrible but God had plans for your babies that we cannot understand. I wish there was something I could do to help you thriugh this. When you are ready to open your heart for another baby or 2 it will help ease the pain and fill your days with some moments of happiness. Hugs to you. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

06-05-2008, 05:12 AM	#9
Yorkieforme YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Windsor, Ontario Canada Posts: 1,138 Blog Entries: 1	Your pain comes through in your words...I am sure your husband is ridden with guilt himself....perhaps some grief counselling....talk with a priest / minister... Sending you many hugs and prayers.... __________________ Natalie & KiKi

06-05-2008, 05:26 AM	#10
4doggiemama Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: KS Posts: 3,290	I've been wondering about you. Do you have a difficult time getting out since you have MS? Please, by the desperation in your word you really need to speak to a counselor, IMO. Is it possible that you might get yourself another baby? Just think that you would have an soft warm little wiggly body to hold and help you think about something else. IMO you soooooo need a distraction. I will be thinking about you and praying for you today. Wish I was closer and could stop in and see you. Love and hugs. __________________ Joanne Eli ChipperEva Snowboy Rosie(R.I.P. 1996-July 29, 2013) Cocoa(R.I.P 1998-April 26, 2012):

06-05-2008, 05:50 AM	#11
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	god bless you sweetie.. please take care of yourself.. hugs to you, im so sorry __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

06-05-2008, 01:26 PM	#12
yorkieusa Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 21,173	It has got to be so lonely for you. Please take care of yourself though. I know your heart has a big hole in it, but I would seriously think about getting another in a few weeks, month or so...when you feel you might be able to handle it with your grief. I had Muffin for 14 yrs and she was loved more than anything. Before a month was past, I had to have another yorkie to love. I think you have the love to give another yorkie, too. __________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel

06-05-2008, 01:32 PM	#13
joy and bella Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: florida Posts: 1,232	oh you poor thing! i am sooo very sorry for your loss! perhaps a new dog would be good for you, obviously not to replace your loved ones but to give you a companion and something to love. i know you are prob not ready...but it is an idea! im sooo sorry again!!!! god bless!! __________________ I LOVE my baby girl Bella!!!! She is my world!!

06-05-2008, 03:14 PM	#14
saphire Lil' CoCo, Lotta Coffee. Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Africa Posts: 3,115	I wish I could help you somehow. I have been wondering how you are. My heart aches for you. I think everyone is right in saying, maybe you should get another yorkie. I know it could never replace the babies you lost, but it could heal your heart, and you have so much love to give another baby. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sheilagh __________________ Sheilagh CoffeeAbigail-Ceana. CoCoMurfee & Winston

06-05-2008, 03:47 PM	#15
deb22 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: us Posts: 1,500	My thoughts and prayers are going out to you. I've often thought of you since you first posted. I am so sorry you are going thru this. I know it makes it worse if you are alone all the time. It gets to me too. If you need to talk just PM me. Getting a new baby will fill your hours with so much. It might be just the thing for you. __________________ Deb and Penny (aka Miss Picky Pants) Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club