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BLowry · 08-13-2006, 05:50 AM

Morning YTer's! I got my little Lillie yesterday..She is so freakin cute!! ( sorry can't send pics right now...working with an old computer at this time and don't have the room for easy share will post pics when I can) Sadie (my 2 1/2 yr old yorkie) does NOT like her new fursister!! She wasn't too bad when I first brought her home but... O......MY.......GOD!! Lillie wasn't to spunky yesterday being her first day away from her surroundings and Mom but she is off and running this morning! She is so funny to watch. Sadie has snapped at her a few times...never bit her but makes me nervous. I pay lots of attention to Sadie but can't leave Lillie out...Lillie likes to be held, and played with... How long did it take for any of your furbabies to get used to a new addition? Any suggestions and input would be greatly appreciated..

Thank you guys!

BabyFidgette · 08-13-2006, 05:52 AM

O man, the jealousy begins. Sorry, hon...can't help you here. I'm a one Yorkie household. Good luck!!!!!

BLowry · 08-13-2006, 05:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyFidgette

O man, the jealousy begins. Sorry, hon...can't help you here. I'm a one Yorkie household. Good luck!!!!!

Thank you, I really do feel bad for Sadie. She was our one and only furbaby. She loves to play and there are times I just can't take her with us. I thought bringing in a new baby would give her a playmate and give her company. I know it has only been one day and I am a patient person. I know eventually she will love her but in the meantime it just breaks my heart when I hold Lillie and Sadie sits there and looks at me,....It's those eyes! I try to hold Sadie too but that doesn't work.

BabyFidgette · 08-13-2006, 06:18 AM

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Originally Posted by BLowry

Thank you, I really do feel bad for Sadie. She was our one and only furbaby. She loves to play and there are times I just can't take her with us. I thought bringing in a new baby would give her a playmate and give her company. I know it has only been one day and I am a patient person. I know eventually she will love her but in the meantime it just breaks my heart when I hold Lillie and Sadie sits there and looks at me,....It's those eyes! I try to hold Sadie too but that doesn't work.

My Aunt has a Yorkie that she just got over a month ago. I thought Baby and her would be best of friends. Sometimes Zoie growls at Baby b/c Baby doesn't leave her alone. All she wants to do is play, but in an annoying way! Zoie can't be by me or else Baby gets mega jealous. I Yorkie sat a few weeks ago for Zoie and Baby didn't even want to come on my bed if Zoie was there. It was a mess. But, luckily I've read many posts where people say that they will eventually "get over it." It just sucks watching their sad faces as they think they've been replaced.

karen171 · 08-13-2006, 07:07 AM

Ziggy is an only child but I found this article...hope some of it helps. Congrats on your new baby and good luck!

THE NEWCOMER: Introducing a New Puppy

by Peter & Nancy Vollmer

Getting a new puppy is one of the most exciting times in every dog lover's life. Whether your dogs work for you or occupy comfortable positions on your couch, the acquisition of a new canine companion is surrounded by hopes, dreams, expectations, and the bustle of preparing the household for a new member.

What if you already have one or more dogs? Can you insure that the newcomer will be accepted into the "pack" with a minimum of stress? What can be done to guarantee that this little fellow's first impression of his new home won't be filled with bared teeth and hostile growls? And how can you help your resident dog(s) relax and adapt to the changes that will inevitably occur in the established routines?

Begin Early

The best defense against the unknown is often a good offense, and in dogs that means preparation, preparation, and more preparation.

You can begin long before the actual arrival date. Since most well-socialized adult dogs have built-in inhibitions against harming very young pups, it's a good idea to have the resident meet the puppy while it is still quite young, away from both dogs' home territories.

If possible, a week or so before the pup comes home, take your older dog to visit the newcomer. To prevent jealousy, when the two first greet, the puppy can be held by the breeder. Before you bring the puppy home, have them meet again at a park or other neutral location. If you have more than one dog, do this with each one separately.

Tune Up

Meanwhile, rehearse you leadership with the resident(s). Make sure that he takes food from you ONLY when you say "okay." (See SuperPuppy, page 18 and How To Play With Your Dog, "Notes for Parents.") Insist he ALWAYS stop whatever he's doing when you raise your voice. Spend some time going over the DROP and WAIT commands in case his obedience skills are rusty.

Keep your routines as consistent as possible. The new puppy will take a lot of your time, but don't neglect the "old" dog's training and play times. Make an effort to spend extra fun times with him when the puppy is safely snoozing in its den. He should continue to get special privileges such as rides in the car or trips to the park by himself. Make sure that he's getting plenty of exercise and that his diet is adequate to help combat any stress caused by the new arrival.

Get Ready, Get Set

Before you actually carry the pup over the threshold, have his own personal space prepared - a crate and exercise pen - where he can escape and relax from the pressures of having to adapt to a new lifestyle and family.

Don't expect him to embrace your routines immediately, especially if he's an older puppy. Give him a place to eat in peace, and a place where he can enjoy his toys safely. You can avoid many squabbles over food and possessions if you don't put a newcomer in the position of having to defend himself right off the bat.

Thoughtful Leadership

Finally, don't be overly protective. Preventing adult dogs from properly subordinating a juvenile can lead to problems down the road. When adolescence hits, an unsubordinated youngster may try to take out the competition and serious fights can result.

Older dogs should never be allow to harass or terrorize a pup and vice versa! Use your leadership to enforce the rules, and chances are good that your pack will be a harmonious one.

Kona · 08-13-2006, 07:13 AM

It took Kona about a week to begin playing with Bernie. She still takes advantage of being able to get up on couch, our bed, and over the baby gates without Bernie. But I was very careful not to leave Kona out. I didn't want her to feel that I'd replace her. Kona and I used to go many places together, so I make sure that still happens. Good luck! And I can't wait to see pictures of the little Lillie!

08-13-2006, 05:50 AM	#1
BLowry My furkids Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 4,625 Blog Entries: 1	Help!!!! Morning YTer's! I got my little Lillie yesterday..She is so freakin cute!! ( sorry can't send pics right now...working with an old computer at this time and don't have the room for easy share will post pics when I can) Sadie (my 2 1/2 yr old yorkie) does NOT like her new fursister!! She wasn't too bad when I first brought her home but... O......MY.......GOD!! Lillie wasn't to spunky yesterday being her first day away from her surroundings and Mom but she is off and running this morning! She is so funny to watch. Sadie has snapped at her a few times...never bit her but makes me nervous. I pay lots of attention to Sadie but can't leave Lillie out...Lillie likes to be held, and played with... How long did it take for any of your furbabies to get used to a new addition? Any suggestions and input would be greatly appreciated.. Thank you guys! __________________ Brenda

08-13-2006, 05:52 AM	#2
BabyFidgette Learn Yorkie CPR! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 6,855	O man, the jealousy begins. Sorry, hon...can't help you here. I'm a one Yorkie household. Good luck!!!!! __________________ Nicole & Baby "The more men I meet, the more I love my Yorkie!"

08-13-2006, 07:07 AM	#5
karen171 ZIGGY & MUGSY'S MOM Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Denton, TX Posts: 1,227	Ziggy is an only child but I found this article...hope some of it helps. Congrats on your new baby and good luck! THE NEWCOMER: Introducing a New Puppy by Peter & Nancy Vollmer Getting a new puppy is one of the most exciting times in every dog lover's life. Whether your dogs work for you or occupy comfortable positions on your couch, the acquisition of a new canine companion is surrounded by hopes, dreams, expectations, and the bustle of preparing the household for a new member. What if you already have one or more dogs? Can you insure that the newcomer will be accepted into the "pack" with a minimum of stress? What can be done to guarantee that this little fellow's first impression of his new home won't be filled with bared teeth and hostile growls? And how can you help your resident dog(s) relax and adapt to the changes that will inevitably occur in the established routines? Begin Early The best defense against the unknown is often a good offense, and in dogs that means preparation, preparation, and more preparation. You can begin long before the actual arrival date. Since most well-socialized adult dogs have built-in inhibitions against harming very young pups, it's a good idea to have the resident meet the puppy while it is still quite young, away from both dogs' home territories. If possible, a week or so before the pup comes home, take your older dog to visit the newcomer. To prevent jealousy, when the two first greet, the puppy can be held by the breeder. Before you bring the puppy home, have them meet again at a park or other neutral location. If you have more than one dog, do this with each one separately. Tune Up Meanwhile, rehearse you leadership with the resident(s). Make sure that he takes food from you ONLY when you say "okay." (See SuperPuppy, page 18 and How To Play With Your Dog, "Notes for Parents.") Insist he ALWAYS stop whatever he's doing when you raise your voice. Spend some time going over the DROP and WAIT commands in case his obedience skills are rusty. Keep your routines as consistent as possible. The new puppy will take a lot of your time, but don't neglect the "old" dog's training and play times. Make an effort to spend extra fun times with him when the puppy is safely snoozing in its den. He should continue to get special privileges such as rides in the car or trips to the park by himself. Make sure that he's getting plenty of exercise and that his diet is adequate to help combat any stress caused by the new arrival. Get Ready, Get Set Before you actually carry the pup over the threshold, have his own personal space prepared - a crate and exercise pen - where he can escape and relax from the pressures of having to adapt to a new lifestyle and family. Don't expect him to embrace your routines immediately, especially if he's an older puppy. Give him a place to eat in peace, and a place where he can enjoy his toys safely. You can avoid many squabbles over food and possessions if you don't put a newcomer in the position of having to defend himself right off the bat. Thoughtful Leadership Finally, don't be overly protective. Preventing adult dogs from properly subordinating a juvenile can lead to problems down the road. When adolescence hits, an unsubordinated youngster may try to take out the competition and serious fights can result. Older dogs should never be allow to harass or terrorize a pup and vice versa! Use your leadership to enforce the rules, and chances are good that your pack will be a harmonious one. __________________ I don't believe in the concept of hell, but if I did I would think of it as filled with people who were cruel to animals. Gary Larson Join: www.millbusters.com

08-13-2006, 07:13 AM	#6
Kona Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Bay Area, California Posts: 1,877	It took Kona about a week to begin playing with Bernie. She still takes advantage of being able to get up on couch, our bed, and over the baby gates without Bernie. But I was very careful not to leave Kona out. I didn't want her to feel that I'd replace her. Kona and I used to go many places together, so I make sure that still happens. Good luck! And I can't wait to see pictures of the little Lillie! __________________ Kona Bernie