wondering about adding a male adult dog to family - YorkieTalk.com Forums

Cheryl · 02-11-2006, 04:59 PM

A friend knows of a male Yorkie that has been mistreated and needs a really good home, which I would have that for sure. But, I wonder about male dogs, since I have a three yr. old female Yorkie! I am not too fond of males, but I need some in put about them over females! Please help!

bugaboosmom · 02-11-2006, 05:07 PM

Poor male yorkie! Is he neutered? Is your girl spayed? It would help if they were. Maybe you could take hime on a trial period.

livingdustmops · 02-11-2006, 05:15 PM

Cheryl, do you have children? The reason I ask is that many abused Yorkies do not do well in homes with kids. Many times they don't like the noise and they become stressed and when this happens they can bite out of fear.

I have never had a problem with male vs female and having problems. Usually the girls are a little more bossy but the boys accept it. Of course all of my animals are spayed and neutered.

Lora9584 · 02-12-2006, 05:32 AM

Graff was an adult when I found him and had definetly been abused. But while he doesn't like men and alot of women he loves kids. We wondered if it wasn't a man that had abused him so terribly and if he didn't live with a child and was there protector or best bud.

Olivier · 02-12-2006, 05:44 AM

I know several persons that weren't found of males either . Guess what ? Some of those persons adopted males and are very happy with them . I asked one just for fun if he would like to change Max for one of mine . He said " Never in a 1000 year ".

livingdustmops · 02-12-2006, 05:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lora9584

Graff was an adult when I found him and had definetly been abused. But while he doesn't like men and alot of women he loves kids. We wondered if it wasn't a man that had abused him so terribly and if he didn't live with a child and was there protector or best bud.

You are right, each Yorkie is an individual in how they react to abuse. I have one that I cannot wear tennis shoes around - she freaks. I love when people adopt rescue's but at first they need a lot of special love and sensitive handling. It would be very cruel if the adoption did not work out and they were moved on. I have seen dogs go through 2 or 3 homes in 1 or 2 years.

Lora9584 · 02-12-2006, 06:05 AM

My Mom would have taken him in a heartbeat if he would not have stayed at my house. My hubby did not like him much at first but Graff did not like him either so it was fine. After Doug got sick Graff adopted him and Doug became very very close to him. He told me Now I understand how you feel about animals. Lora as tight on money as we are if someone offered me money for Graff and Haylee I wouldnt take any amount of money for either one of them. So that is the one good thing that has happend with him getting sick. Well guess there have been a few good things that happened. We as a family have become so much closer since this has happend.

Laura · 02-12-2006, 06:29 AM

I love having my six! 3 boys, 3 girls. I won't say I love having six, but it just worked out that way. If he is neutered, that is a good start. Adding a problem dog to your family if you aren't ready to deal with problems could be bad. I would not base my decision on the sex, as males are just as lovable and cuddly as the girls. They each have their own personality, and each are unique. If he barks too much, or fights with your girl, or even additional health problems; these are more the things I would consider before adopting.

chachi · 02-12-2006, 07:41 AM

I have a male and a female and they get along great. I like that combonation. Just have him neutered and you wont have any male problems.

Jenn218 · 02-12-2006, 10:03 AM

I think it is wonderful to read and hear about people adopting Yorkies. Of course, I will never understand why these adorable and loving babies would ever be in that position!

I have a male...........I don't think it would matter much though. As long has you would work with him and give him what he needs, I think he would end up just as if you had him always.

Medical problems....that's another issue. I have taken in dogs that no one else wanted because they were always sick. Of course, I always ended up spending thousands and then they would pass on anyway. BUT for me, it didn't matter. As long as they were free of pain and happy for a few years or so, it was worth it....course the heartbreak is another story. In other words, I wouldn't mind taking in a rescue even if he had medical problems.....but that is something each family has to decide on.

I think as long as you have the time to train him and help him in areas that he needs the help, he would do just fine in your family and with your girl.

Good luck....and keep us posted.

02-11-2006, 04:59 PM	#1
Cheryl Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Conroe TX Posts: 71	wondering about adding a male adult dog to family A friend knows of a male Yorkie that has been mistreated and needs a really good home, which I would have that for sure. But, I wonder about male dogs, since I have a three yr. old female Yorkie! I am not too fond of males, but I need some in put about them over females! Please help!

02-11-2006, 05:07 PM	#2
bugaboosmom Luv My Bug! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: california Posts: 1,573	Poor male yorkie! Is he neutered? Is your girl spayed? It would help if they were. Maybe you could take hime on a trial period. __________________ TARMAR'S YORKIES

02-11-2006, 05:15 PM	#3
livingdustmops Princess Poop A Lot Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Colorado Posts: 6,728	Cheryl, do you have children? The reason I ask is that many abused Yorkies do not do well in homes with kids. Many times they don't like the noise and they become stressed and when this happens they can bite out of fear. I have never had a problem with male vs female and having problems. Usually the girls are a little more bossy but the boys accept it. Of course all of my animals are spayed and neutered. __________________ Cindy & The Rescued Gang Puppies Are Not Products!

02-12-2006, 06:29 AM	#8
Laura Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Wylie TX Posts: 1,577	I love having my six! 3 boys, 3 girls. I won't say I love having six, but it just worked out that way. If he is neutered, that is a good start. Adding a problem dog to your family if you aren't ready to deal with problems could be bad. I would not base my decision on the sex, as males are just as lovable and cuddly as the girls. They each have their own personality, and each are unique. If he barks too much, or fights with your girl, or even additional health problems; these are more the things I would consider before adopting. __________________ Laura--loving mom of Robyn, Dexter, Sandy, Mattie, Sammy, Jake & Mollie http://www.yorkietalk.com/gallery/sh...00&ppuser=1851

02-12-2006, 07:41 AM	#9
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I have a male and a female and they get along great. I like that combonation. Just have him neutered and you wont have any male problems. __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

02-12-2006, 05:32 AM	#4
Lora9584 YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Indiana Posts: 322	Graff was an adult when I found him and had definetly been abused. But while he doesn't like men and alot of women he loves kids. We wondered if it wasn't a man that had abused him so terribly and if he didn't live with a child and was there protector or best bud.

02-12-2006, 05:44 AM	#5
Olivier Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 2,999	I know several persons that weren't found of males either . Guess what ? Some of those persons adopted males and are very happy with them . I asked one just for fun if he would like to change Max for one of mine . He said " Never in a 1000 year ".

02-12-2006, 06:05 AM	#7
Lora9584 YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Indiana Posts: 322	My Mom would have taken him in a heartbeat if he would not have stayed at my house. My hubby did not like him much at first but Graff did not like him either so it was fine. After Doug got sick Graff adopted him and Doug became very very close to him. He told me Now I understand how you feel about animals. Lora as tight on money as we are if someone offered me money for Graff and Haylee I wouldnt take any amount of money for either one of them. So that is the one good thing that has happend with him getting sick. Well guess there have been a few good things that happened. We as a family have become so much closer since this has happend.

02-12-2006, 10:03 AM	#10
Jenn218 Mojo, LilyGrace & Me Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: cuddling with my babies<3 Posts: 17,329	I think it is wonderful to read and hear about people adopting Yorkies. Of course, I will never understand why these adorable and loving babies would ever be in that position! I have a male...........I don't think it would matter much though. As long has you would work with him and give him what he needs, I think he would end up just as if you had him always. Medical problems....that's another issue. I have taken in dogs that no one else wanted because they were always sick. Of course, I always ended up spending thousands and then they would pass on anyway. BUT for me, it didn't matter. As long as they were free of pain and happy for a few years or so, it was worth it....course the heartbreak is another story. In other words, I wouldn't mind taking in a rescue even if he had medical problems.....but that is something each family has to decide on. I think as long as you have the time to train him and help him in areas that he needs the help, he would do just fine in your family and with your girl. Good luck....and keep us posted. __________________ Hi I'm Jenn Mom to..... Mojo,LilyGrace & DD Kate RIP Mojo FOREVER in our hearts!