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Judy in Waco · 10-30-2018, 01:35 PM

Hello everyone, I have been MIA from YorkieTalk for almost 3 years, so I thought I would reintroduce myself for those who don't know me.

Long story short, my husband and I separated, and I haven't had custody of our yorkie, Kandi, in a little over 3 years. I now have her back. Yeah!! I am elated and devastated at the same time. I made the difficult choice to let her stay with my ex because no matter our problems, I was sure he would take care of her. I continued to pay all vet bills, etc.. Unfortunately, for reasons (some that may have been beyond his control, please don't judge, I am trying not to.) he did NOT take good care of her.

Disregarding the reasons why, she (now ten years old) was returned to me on Thursday with fur so matted, it looked like one big mat, she has LP in one leg, and has major dental issues. She has been on a diet of only human food, and her potty training was almost completely neglected.

Those issues have all been addressed or are being addressed. She was very carefully, gently, and professionally groomed (almost shaved), but the little growths that come with age were irritated to the point that some were bleeding. She is still very sweet, affectionate and loving. She obviously recognized me and seems very happy to be back with me. She is now on good quality food for small, senior dogs (small bits and dry) which she really seems to like. She is not begging for human food. She is on pain meds for her knee and ligaments that also reduces swelling. The vet thinks she may need surgery, but he wants to wait for her to settle with me and reevaluate her. Potty retraining is going very well. She is simply a trooper. I am so proud of her. She is in a crate when I can't be there to supervise to keep her from jumping, etc... and to help with potty retraining.

But, she's home. And she's mine again. I am truly thankful. Be prepared for questions, but right now we are just getting settled back with each other again. I have missed you all. (Photos will come when her hair grows out a little.)

teasell · 10-30-2018, 02:08 PM

[So glad for you and her. So glad she is responding to a better diet and vetting. Sometimes things happen beyond our control

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Judy in Waco · 10-30-2018, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by teasell

[So glad for you and her. So glad she is responding to a better diet and vetting. Sometimes things happen beyond our control

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Thank you. My heart is full. ❤

lilgidget · 10-30-2018, 02:57 PM

So glad your baby is back with you and receiving the love and care she deserves. Love to both of you.

nanajoy · 10-30-2018, 03:48 PM

So glad that you have been reunited with your sweet girl! She is lucky that she will be able to spend her remaining years in a loving home which provides her with everything that she needs.

matese · 10-30-2018, 04:04 PM

A sad story with a happy ending. It's wonderful that Kandi is back with you and getting the proper care she so deserves. Bless you for getting this little girl back on track.

buddybear · 10-30-2018, 04:46 PM

Sorry about the circumstances that separated you, but thrilled she is getting the TLC she deserves. . . . This is like an early Christmas for you both.

Best wishes!!!!

Lovetodream88 · 10-30-2018, 05:53 PM

So glad you got her back.

KatysMom · 10-30-2018, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by matese

A sad story with a happy ending. It's wonderful that Kandi is back with you and getting the proper care she so deserves. Bless you for getting this little girl back on track.

Judy in Waco · 10-30-2018, 06:18 PM

Thank you all.

maxdog · 10-30-2018, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by matese

A sad story with a happy ending. It's wonderful that Kandi is back with you and getting the proper care she so deserves. Bless you for getting this little girl back on track.

Wylie's Mom · 10-31-2018, 04:17 AM

So great to see you again

! I'm so sorry that Kandi was neglected by your ex, I'm sure that brought a ton of emotions for you. Thankfully, the little sweetheart is back in your loving arms and she will be treasured for always now

!

Judy in Waco · 10-31-2018, 04:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom

So great to see you again

! I'm so sorry that Kandi was neglected by your ex, I'm sure that brought a ton of emotions for you. Thankfully, the little sweetheart is back in your loving arms and she will be treasured for always now

!

Thank you!

wemple2 · 10-31-2018, 04:40 PM

Hi Judy, you've been missed!!! Kandi is going to know nothing but love from here on...Please give her some love from Winston and I. Keep in touch, I still drop in here daily...may not post as much as I did but I'm still hanging around. So good to "see" you again!!!

yorkiemini · 10-31-2018, 05:21 PM

So glad both of you are back‼️

10-30-2018, 01:35 PM	#1
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	Missed you guys! Hello everyone, I have been MIA from YorkieTalk for almost 3 years, so I thought I would reintroduce myself for those who don't know me. Long story short, my husband and I separated, and I haven't had custody of our yorkie, Kandi, in a little over 3 years. I now have her back. Yeah!! I am elated and devastated at the same time. I made the difficult choice to let her stay with my ex because no matter our problems, I was sure he would take care of her. I continued to pay all vet bills, etc.. Unfortunately, for reasons (some that may have been beyond his control, please don't judge, I am trying not to.) he did NOT take good care of her. Disregarding the reasons why, she (now ten years old) was returned to me on Thursday with fur so matted, it looked like one big mat, she has LP in one leg, and has major dental issues. She has been on a diet of only human food, and her potty training was almost completely neglected. Those issues have all been addressed or are being addressed. She was very carefully, gently, and professionally groomed (almost shaved), but the little growths that come with age were irritated to the point that some were bleeding. She is still very sweet, affectionate and loving. She obviously recognized me and seems very happy to be back with me. She is now on good quality food for small, senior dogs (small bits and dry) which she really seems to like. She is not begging for human food. She is on pain meds for her knee and ligaments that also reduces swelling. The vet thinks she may need surgery, but he wants to wait for her to settle with me and reevaluate her. Potty retraining is going very well. She is simply a trooper. I am so proud of her. She is in a crate when I can't be there to supervise to keep her from jumping, etc... and to help with potty retraining. But, she's home. And she's mine again. I am truly thankful. Be prepared for questions, but right now we are just getting settled back with each other again. I have missed you all. (Photos will come when her hair grows out a little.) __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)

10-30-2018, 03:48 PM	#5
nanajoy YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Kissimmee, FL Posts: 870	So glad that you have been reunited with your sweet girl! She is lucky that she will be able to spend her remaining years in a loving home which provides her with everything that she needs. __________________ Joy...Mommy to Tyrone and Gus r.i.p. beloved Ozzie and Tucker, and Beauregarde the poodle

10-30-2018, 04:04 PM	#6
matese Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: E.Stroudsburg, Pa. Posts: 69,101	A sad story with a happy ending. It's wonderful that Kandi is back with you and getting the proper care she so deserves. Bless you for getting this little girl back on track. __________________ Joan, mom to Cody RIP Matese Schnae Kajon Kia forever in my A House Is Not A Home Without A Dog

10-30-2018, 04:46 PM	#7
buddybear YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: prescott valley az usa Posts: 1,232	Sorry about the circumstances that separated you, but thrilled she is getting the TLC she deserves. . . . This is like an early Christmas for you both. Best wishes!!!! __________________ Jennifer + Buddybear:

10-30-2018, 05:53 PM	#8
Lovetodream88 Yorkie mom of 4 Donating YT Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: LaPlata, Md Posts: 23,248	So glad you got her back. __________________ Taylor My babies Joey, Penny ,Ollie & Dixie Callie Mae, you will forever be in my heart!

10-30-2018, 02:08 PM	#2
teasell YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Cherryville, North Carolina, US Posts: 371	[So glad for you and her. So glad she is responding to a better diet and vetting. Sometimes things happen beyond our control COLOR="DarkOrchid"][/COLOR]

10-30-2018, 02:57 PM	#4
lilgidget YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2016 Location: stanley nc Posts: 1,152	So glad your baby is back with you and receiving the love and care she deserves. Love to both of you.

10-30-2018, 06:18 PM	#10
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	Thank you all. __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)

10-31-2018, 04:17 AM	#12
Wylie's Mom Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Phoenix, AZ Posts: 35,889 Blog Entries: 2	So great to see you again ! I'm so sorry that Kandi was neglected by your ex, I'm sure that brought a ton of emotions for you. Thankfully, the little sweetheart is back in your loving arms and she will be treasured for always now ! __________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann \| Pfeiffer \| Marcel Verdel Purcell \| Wylie \| Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨°

10-31-2018, 04:40 PM	#14
wemple2 Wee Winston Wiggles Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kewanee, Illinois Posts: 9,666	Hi Judy, you've been missed!!! Kandi is going to know nothing but love from here on...Please give her some love from Winston and I. Keep in touch, I still drop in here daily...may not post as much as I did but I'm still hanging around. So good to "see" you again!!! __________________ As Ever, Kathy Intruducing Bentley Winston and Spencer: RIP My Sweet Angels

10-31-2018, 05:21 PM	#15
yorkiemini Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: USA Posts: 4,285	So glad both of you are back‼️ __________________ . Cali , and Cali's keeper and staff, Jay No, not a "mini" Yorkie - She loves to motor in her Mini Cooper car