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the4ween · 08-24-2010, 08:27 AM

So I have a female that finished her heat cycle in early July , I have male that is 6 years old...well Dallas during her heat cycle would try and hump her and then once her cycle was over he would leave her alone and if get annoyed when she came around him, but again this week and last week we are noticing he is trying to hump her again, she is getting so annoyed w/ him that she now growls at him when he just looks at her....why would he all of a sudden be on her again like this...I mean he acts like he has no brains...She can't be in heat again right ? There is no blood ..her vuvla is there of course but I am not sure if it's swollen , I have noticed she eats more and is super lovey dovey .....what are your thoughts my fellow Yorkie Lovers? I thought maybe she was prego but her belly is normal size and by now she would be showing ...

Beamers Mom · 08-24-2010, 09:09 AM

You need to have your female spayed and Dallas neutered.

It could be a "dominance" thing with Dallas.

the4ween · 08-24-2010, 09:19 AM

...I know they need to be fixed so if anyone else responds save your fingers the typing .....Thank you for the insight but he is acting really insane for it to be dominance , but time will tell.

Lizzie07 · 08-24-2010, 09:46 AM

Maybe this is just one of the problems you get with intact dogs.

YorkieProud · 08-24-2010, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by the4ween

...I know they need to be fixed so if anyone else responds save your fingers the typing .....Thank you for the insight but he is acting really insane for it to be dominance , but time will tell.

Great advice you should probably follow it.

YorkieProud

the4ween · 08-24-2010, 10:22 AM

Ya know it's hard to read if there is sarcasm in this replies , I certainly hope not I thought this was a great site to turn to for helpful advice ...However since you want to judge let me help you judge even more,.. when I can financially take on the expence I will...you dont know my hardships so before you judge think twice....these are my babies I love them as much as my children ...came to the site today to see if anyone else had experienced this not be lectured b/c I thought this is what the site was for as it has been a great resource in the past for me ..Dallas hasn't been fixed b/c he has other health issues and the Vet warned against it ..and Philly will be fixed ...but again when I can take on the financial expence ..

Beamers Mom · 08-24-2010, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by the4ween

Ya know it's hard to read if there is sarcasm in this replies , I certainly hope not I thought this was a great site to turn to for helpful advice ...However since you want to judge let me help you judge even more,.. when I can financially take on the expence I will...you dont know my hardships so before you judge think twice....these are my babies I love them as much as my children ...came to the site today to see if anyone else had experienced this not be lectured b/c I thought this is what the site was for as it has been a great resource in the past for me ..Dallas hasn't been fixed b/c he has other health issues and the Vet warned against it ..and Philly will be fixed ...but again when I can take on the financial expence ..

I can guarantee you that Philly having puppies and you having to raise them until they are 12 weeks old will be a lot more expensive than having her spayed.
Is there a low cost spay and neuter clinic in your area??

the4ween · 08-24-2010, 10:41 AM

You know AGAIN ...this discussion is not what my post was about ..stick to the post or as my Mom used to say if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all.....
Just so you that care to judge know I am getting private messages from other Yorkie Owners saying they have experienced this but never posted anything b/c they were worried you " that judge " would rip them apart ..is that really the purpose of this site...Very Sad !! ..if you dont have anything helpful to respond ..other then get her fixed I would suggest you not respond ..save yourself some time and energy and give your " expert " opinion to someone else.Good grief !!

JDS · 08-24-2010, 11:04 AM

Have you taken her to the vet for an examination to see if she is pregnant? If she is pregnant, you need to begin to prepare NOW. Don't wait until the pups are due to get yourself prepared for whelping the puppies. Your baby's life & the life of her puppies will depend on you.

BTW, how big is your girl?

furbutt · 08-24-2010, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by the4ween

Ya know it's hard to read if there is sarcasm in this replies , I certainly hope not I thought this was a great site to turn to for helpful advice ...However since you want to judge let me help you judge even more,.. when I can financially take on the expence I will...you dont know my hardships so before you judge think twice....these are my babies I love them as much as my children ...came to the site today to see if anyone else had experienced this not be lectured b/c I thought this is what the site was for as it has been a great resource in the past for me ..Dallas hasn't been fixed b/c he has other health issues and the Vet warned against it ..and Philly will be fixed ...but again when I can take on the financial expence ..

Aw i am sorry you feel like this

I dont think anyone is tryng to be sarcastic with you. I just think they are telling you to maybe get them fixed as thats the problem. You came here to ask for advice and the advice you are given is maybe it would be best to get them fixed. I understand about being able to afford it, it can be hard. Have you had them both since they where puppies? Have they grew up together? xxx

the4ween · 08-24-2010, 11:10 AM

Hi JDS , I appreciate your concern but she isn't pregnant there is no way , there were measures taken to ensure that didn't happen for many reasons number one her being just a baby ...but my precious Philly is about 6.5 pounds is what I would guess anyways she hasn't had to go to the Vet for about 4 months now since she is up on all her shots , Dallas is 4.4 and she is a bit bigger then him ..here is a thought ...maybe he has short man complex...he is trying to show her who is Boss..LOL
How old is your baby or babies?

megooego · 08-24-2010, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by the4ween

You know AGAIN ...this discussion is not what my post was about ..stick to the post or as my Mom used to say if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all.....
Just so you that care to judge know I am getting private messages from other Yorkie Owners saying they have experienced this but never posted anything b/c they were worried you " that judge " would rip them apart ..is that really the purpose of this site...Very Sad !! ..if you dont have anything helpful to respond ..other then get her fixed I would suggest you not respond ..save yourself some time and energy and give your " expert " opinion to someone else.Good grief !!

No one is judging you. Everyone is just offering advice. You want to know how to fix your problem, and it seems like spaying & neutering your dogs is the only thing that will do it.

I am sorry that you aren't getting the answers you were hoping for, but people are just giving you their honest opinion.

the4ween · 08-24-2010, 11:14 AM

Hey Furbutt ( Love the name ) I got Dallas and Philly both at 12 weeks , Dallas is almost 7 though and Philly Ann is almost a year now ... I appreciate your tone and your email comes across much nicer some people on this site are ready to bash you as soon as you post something and they find out your dogs aren't fixed ..man they jump you . I feel like I have to give a disclaimer if I post anything before my head gets biten off~ yikes! How old are your babies?or Baby?

MyBabyFynnlie · 08-24-2010, 11:17 AM

We're not trying to judge you. We're just saying that when you fix them, they won't have the issues that come with being intact. You won't have to deal with Philly having her TOTM or Dallas trying to mount her - when she goes into heat. If you can only handle getting one of them fixed, I would choose Philly first. If it were me.

I know that the SPCA in my area offers a FREE spay/neuter clinic once a month. I would contact the one in your area and see if they offer the same.

I've never had any issues like this as I've never had males and females together when they were intact. Mostly, because my animals have come from the SPCA before.

Good luck and I hope you can find something that will help you. That, and you can stop being so defensive. The people that post that you need to get your pets fixed are just passionate and they care about the wellfare of the animals. Sometimes, a little blindly, with regards to the mother/father of the animal.

As I said, good luck. I hope everything gets worked out and you're able to go back to having a happy life with both of your babies and not worry about Philly growling at Dallas or Dallas trying to mount Philly.

furbutt · 08-24-2010, 11:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the4ween

You know AGAIN ...this discussion is not what my post was about ..stick to the post or as my Mom used to say if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all.....
Just so you that care to judge know I am getting private messages from other Yorkie Owners saying they have experienced this but never posted anything b/c they were worried you " that judge " would rip them apart ..is that really the purpose of this site...Very Sad !! ..if you dont have anything helpful to respond ..other then get her fixed I would suggest you not respond ..save yourself some time and energy and give your " expert " opinion to someone else.Good grief !!

Oh my thats a little rude. People are just trying to help you

08-24-2010, 08:27 AM	#1
the4ween Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Chesterfield Va USA Posts: 60	Grrrrrr So I have a female that finished her heat cycle in early July , I have male that is 6 years old...well Dallas during her heat cycle would try and hump her and then once her cycle was over he would leave her alone and if get annoyed when she came around him, but again this week and last week we are noticing he is trying to hump her again, she is getting so annoyed w/ him that she now growls at him when he just looks at her....why would he all of a sudden be on her again like this...I mean he acts like he has no brains...She can't be in heat again right ? There is no blood ..her vuvla is there of course but I am not sure if it's swollen , I have noticed she eats more and is super lovey dovey .....what are your thoughts my fellow Yorkie Lovers? I thought maybe she was prego but her belly is normal size and by now she would be showing ... __________________ Proud Mommy of two Yorkies! Dallas Philly

08-24-2010, 09:09 AM	#2
Beamers Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Palm Bay, Fl, USA Posts: 5,957	You need to have your female spayed and Dallas neutered. It could be a "dominance" thing with Dallas. __________________ Help control the pet population. Have your pet spayed or neutered. - Bob Barker

08-24-2010, 09:19 AM	#3
the4ween Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Chesterfield Va USA Posts: 60	...I know they need to be fixed so if anyone else responds save your fingers the typing .....Thank you for the insight but he is acting really insane for it to be dominance , but time will tell. __________________ Proud Mommy of two Yorkies! Dallas Philly

08-24-2010, 09:46 AM	#4
Lizzie07 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Ball Ground, GA Posts: 1,262	Maybe this is just one of the problems you get with intact dogs. __________________ Kristan Lizzy's mom

08-24-2010, 10:22 AM	#6
the4ween Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Chesterfield Va USA Posts: 60	Ya know it's hard to read if there is sarcasm in this replies , I certainly hope not I thought this was a great site to turn to for helpful advice ...However since you want to judge let me help you judge even more,.. when I can financially take on the expence I will...you dont know my hardships so before you judge think twice....these are my babies I love them as much as my children ...came to the site today to see if anyone else had experienced this not be lectured b/c I thought this is what the site was for as it has been a great resource in the past for me ..Dallas hasn't been fixed b/c he has other health issues and the Vet warned against it ..and Philly will be fixed ...but again when I can take on the financial expence .. __________________ Proud Mommy of two Yorkies! Dallas Philly

08-24-2010, 10:41 AM	#8
the4ween Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Chesterfield Va USA Posts: 60	You know AGAIN ...this discussion is not what my post was about ..stick to the post or as my Mom used to say if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all..... Just so you that care to judge know I am getting private messages from other Yorkie Owners saying they have experienced this but never posted anything b/c they were worried you " that judge " would rip them apart ..is that really the purpose of this site...Very Sad !! ..if you dont have anything helpful to respond ..other then get her fixed I would suggest you not respond ..save yourself some time and energy and give your " expert " opinion to someone else.Good grief !! __________________ Proud Mommy of two Yorkies! Dallas Philly

08-24-2010, 11:04 AM	#9
JDS YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: the good 'ol South Posts: 683	Have you taken her to the vet for an examination to see if she is pregnant? If she is pregnant, you need to begin to prepare NOW. Don't wait until the pups are due to get yourself prepared for whelping the puppies. Your baby's life & the life of her puppies will depend on you. BTW, how big is your girl? __________________ Jenn & Lulu

08-24-2010, 11:10 AM	#11
the4ween Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Chesterfield Va USA Posts: 60	Hi JDS , I appreciate your concern but she isn't pregnant there is no way , there were measures taken to ensure that didn't happen for many reasons number one her being just a baby ...but my precious Philly is about 6.5 pounds is what I would guess anyways she hasn't had to go to the Vet for about 4 months now since she is up on all her shots , Dallas is 4.4 and she is a bit bigger then him ..here is a thought ...maybe he has short man complex...he is trying to show her who is Boss..LOL How old is your baby or babies? __________________ Proud Mommy of two Yorkies! Dallas Philly

08-24-2010, 11:14 AM	#13
the4ween Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Chesterfield Va USA Posts: 60	Hey Furbutt ( Love the name ) I got Dallas and Philly both at 12 weeks , Dallas is almost 7 though and Philly Ann is almost a year now ... I appreciate your tone and your email comes across much nicer some people on this site are ready to bash you as soon as you post something and they find out your dogs aren't fixed ..man they jump you . I feel like I have to give a disclaimer if I post anything before my head gets biten off~ yikes! How old are your babies?or Baby? __________________ Proud Mommy of two Yorkies! Dallas Philly

08-24-2010, 11:17 AM	#14
MyBabyFynnlie Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Charlottesville, Virgina, US Posts: 806	We're not trying to judge you. We're just saying that when you fix them, they won't have the issues that come with being intact. You won't have to deal with Philly having her TOTM or Dallas trying to mount her - when she goes into heat. If you can only handle getting one of them fixed, I would choose Philly first. If it were me. I know that the SPCA in my area offers a FREE spay/neuter clinic once a month. I would contact the one in your area and see if they offer the same. I've never had any issues like this as I've never had males and females together when they were intact. Mostly, because my animals have come from the SPCA before. Good luck and I hope you can find something that will help you. That, and you can stop being so defensive. The people that post that you need to get your pets fixed are just passionate and they care about the wellfare of the animals. Sometimes, a little blindly, with regards to the mother/father of the animal. As I said, good luck. I hope everything gets worked out and you're able to go back to having a happy life with both of your babies and not worry about Philly growling at Dallas or Dallas trying to mount Philly. __________________ Jessica Momma and personal assistant to Fynnlie