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Sweet Apple · 12-20-2009, 06:06 AM

Buzz has been w/Apple and me for a month now, and I think they're doing quite nicely...However, I still don't have the freedom to love and cuddle on Buzz w/o Apple going balistic...I've made every effort to greet her first, feed her first, pet her first, everything FIRST...I catch myself sneaking pets and cuddles w/Buzz, but I want to be able to freely show my feelings for both of them...Is there anything I'm missing, or is this the way it's going to be forever? Funny thing is, she doesn't really wanted to be petted and cuddled, and it's his favorite thing to do...Any suggestions or experiences will be greatly appreciated...

viviansnickers · 12-20-2009, 06:22 AM

Awwwwww!! Mags! Sorry, no input babes, but am anxious to see responses for my future endeavors!! Good luck babe!!! Apple is gettin sassy!!!! lol!!

xoxox-
Snick & Viv

Ringo1 · 12-20-2009, 06:23 AM

We've had Lucy about 2 weeks longer than you and I still find myself sneaking cuddles. My saving grace is that my Westie spends lots of time outside in his backyard at night so that's when I get lots of snuggles in with Lucy.

Of an evening, when we are in our small family room, Ringo will just jump in my lap even if Lucy is already there.

Usually, then my son will take one of them so everyone has someone to snuggle!

MaddiesMommie · 12-20-2009, 11:28 AM

Well....we have had baby #2 for almost 5 months and are just now finding that we are able to be on the couch with Cooper and Maddie not crawling up to get right in our face every time trying to push Cooper away.

She still likes to take part in the cuddle time but Cooper doesn't mind sharing. Cooper is not the cuddle-bug your Buzz is though. I think she would have been, but Maddie made this impossible.

Maddie 2.5 yrs so I guess it has taken her a while to realize whe was not being replaced and figured out she is not going anywhere once we brought Cooper home.
I will admit my relationship with Cooper is not the same as it is with Maddie. Maddie is still the 'baby' but Cooper just loves life so she is always happy!

That makes it much easier.

Sweet Apple · 12-20-2009, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by MaddiesMommie

Well....we have had baby #2 for almost 5 months and are just now finding that we are able to be on the couch with Cooper and Maddie not crawling up to get right in our face every time trying to push Cooper away.

She still likes to take part in the cuddle time but Cooper doesn't mind sharing. Cooper is not the cuddle-bug your Buzz is though. I think she would have been, but Maddie made this impossible.

Maddie 2.5 yrs so I guess it has taken her a while to realize whe was not being replaced and figured out she is not going anywhere once we brought Cooper home.
I will admit my relationship with Cooper is not the same as it is with Maddie. Maddie is still the 'baby' but Cooper just loves life so she is always happy!

That makes it much easier.

Wow, 5 months! Well, maybe there's hope lol...Buzz is the same way as Cooper...He doesn't mind me petting Apple, as long as he gets pets...Apple, not so much I was hoping I would get more response and advice, from others, that have experienced this...I'm answering this post, to bump it up...Btw, I'm thinking about sneaking Buzz into my bed...lol...I haven't been able to have Apple, because she wants to jump off (and she's waaaaaaaay to little)...Buzz, on the other hand, will just snuggle right up to me and stay that way all night long...I just know he will....I'll let you know

violet voon · 12-20-2009, 10:45 PM

Just hang on for a little longer, well at least there are "4 more months"

12-20-2009, 06:06 AM	#1
Sweet Apple Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Houston, Texas USA Posts: 2,473	Jealousy Buzz has been w/Apple and me for a month now, and I think they're doing quite nicely...However, I still don't have the freedom to love and cuddle on Buzz w/o Apple going balistic...I've made every effort to greet her first, feed her first, pet her first, everything FIRST...I catch myself sneaking pets and cuddles w/Buzz, but I want to be able to freely show my feelings for both of them...Is there anything I'm missing, or is this the way it's going to be forever? Funny thing is, she doesn't really wanted to be petted and cuddled, and it's his favorite thing to do...Any suggestions or experiences will be greatly appreciated...

12-20-2009, 06:22 AM	#2
viviansnickers Snick&Viv= BFF Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Michigan Posts: 1,755	Awwwwww!! Mags! Sorry, no input babes, but am anxious to see responses for my future endeavors!! Good luck babe!!! Apple is gettin sassy!!!! lol!! xoxox- Snick & Viv __________________ -Vivian Mommy to my cuddlebug baby boys-Snickers & Reesie

12-20-2009, 06:23 AM	#3
Ringo1 Ringo (1) and Lucy too! Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: On the Edge of Glory Posts: 3,447	We've had Lucy about 2 weeks longer than you and I still find myself sneaking cuddles. My saving grace is that my Westie spends lots of time outside in his backyard at night so that's when I get lots of snuggles in with Lucy. Of an evening, when we are in our small family room, Ringo will just jump in my lap even if Lucy is already there. Usually, then my son will take one of them so everyone has someone to snuggle!

12-20-2009, 11:28 AM	#4
MaddiesMommie LoveMy2 Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: East Tennessee Posts: 4,060	Well....we have had baby #2 for almost 5 months and are just now finding that we are able to be on the couch with Cooper and Maddie not crawling up to get right in our face every time trying to push Cooper away. She still likes to take part in the cuddle time but Cooper doesn't mind sharing. Cooper is not the cuddle-bug your Buzz is though. I think she would have been, but Maddie made this impossible. Maddie 2.5 yrs so I guess it has taken her a while to realize whe was not being replaced and figured out she is not going anywhere once we brought Cooper home. I will admit my relationship with Cooper is not the same as it is with Maddie. Maddie is still the 'baby' but Cooper just loves life so she is always happy! That makes it much easier.

12-20-2009, 10:45 PM	#6
violet voon YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: M'sia Posts: 454	Just hang on for a little longer, well at least there are "4 more months"