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Dina_Nichole · 06-09-2008, 10:15 AM

Hey guys, this is nothing serious but more or less a curious question. I just got off the phone with a family member that also has a yorkie. I swear sometimes I don't even know why I talk to her. She's always comparing my girls with her little girl. She has said some pretty rude comments about them and today she really annoyed me.

She called and asked if I recieved a picture she sent. I never recieved it and asked what was wrong. She said it was a yorkie that she was thinking of buying. She then goes on to tell me how perfect this little girl is. As she's telling me about this girl, she was comparing her to mine the entire time. Then she says that each of mine have something pretty, but this girl has it all.

I couldn't even believe she said it.

Did I take that wrong? I was pretty quiet and then she said she wanted one that had a tan head, not like my girls or the girl she has now. Well, I then told her that Pia does have a tan head and she told me she didn't. I said nicely that Trixie's head has a few differen't colors, Paisley's head is blonde but a lot of tan is coming in and Pia is tan.

Am I wrong? She would not let up on this and now I'm curious. It surely doesn't matter to me, but I would like to know if I'm wrong. Pia's head to me has always been without a doubt tan. The roots are darker tan than the ends, but to me it is tan. She said Pia's head is gold. I'm not even sure what gold is considered.

Sorry this is so long. I'm just curious to know if I've been wrong this entire time. Either way I'm not telling her, hahaha!!

Here are two pictures I just took the other day. If she isn't tan, could someone show me one with a tan head.

Sloan · 06-09-2008, 10:20 AM

Oh she's beautiful. I love that second picture of her....what a darling little girl Pia is. I'm not an expert on yorkie colors but she sure looks tan to me. Don't let her get to you...I know it's hard. People who do so much "comparing" often have some insecurity issues....it's pretty obvious that she does. Does she try to "one up" you on other things too?

hasrv4fun · 06-09-2008, 10:22 AM

OMG how pretty and gold does she think your baby has to be to be ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS ????

Don't let her get under your skin girl - sounds like a evil jealous person is trying to rile you up.

Ignore her and if you choose not to ignore her -just remember that i always have room for one more - especially that pretty

abbey lee · 06-09-2008, 10:23 AM

Hm...that's very weird. Sounds like a weird type of person to say any of those things. I mean, it is not really a competition. I would be pretty annoyed if someone said ANYTHING bad about my baby. But you should just blow her off...she sounds weird. Just ignore her comments bc they don't matter. You and me and lots of other people know they your babies are gorgeous. Maybe she is jealous?? BC honestly, and I have always thought this, Pia is THE most gorgeous yorkie I have ever seen. And yes her head is TAN!

Woogie Man · 06-09-2008, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Sloan

Oh she's beautiful. I love that second picture of her....what a darling little girl Pia is. I'm not an expert on yorkie colors but she sure looks tan to me. Don't let her get to you...I know it's hard. People who do so much "comparing" often have some insecurity issues....it's pretty obvious that she does. Does she try to "one up" you on other things too?

Ditto Sloan's comment......that second pic is too cute!!

TootiesMom · 06-09-2008, 10:25 AM

no matter what you call it, that little girl is simply beautiful! I can't imagine a prettier little girl, well except mine of course... LOL....

She has such a perfect tiny face, your relative is just jealous because she can't have one that precious!

I always LOVE looking at pics of your babies... don't let her get to you, your baby is a doll!
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flgurl69 · 06-09-2008, 10:29 AM

I don't have a clue about coloring but whatever color it is called Pia's coloring is pretty.

IMHO your family member sounds insecure and jealous.

Dina_Nichole · 06-09-2008, 10:31 AM

Thanks everyone.

It doesn't matter to me what her hair color is, but I really was curious after everything she said to me. I really don't get her and why she says ignorant things. She has never ever said anything nice to me about my babies. It is so sad because her little girl is just precious. I'd like to steal her, LOL!! I'm so afraid that if she gets this new "perfect" girl, then her other will be pushed to the side.

She annoyed me but I'mnot upset by her comments. I was just truly wondering if I was wrong about Pia's color, hahaha. Even if I am, I refuse to tell her.

She would love that too much!!

Lexie Blue · 06-09-2008, 10:32 AM

I know what you mean; sometimes there's just a little something in between the lines. But don't worry about it; Pia is absolutely gorgeous. She looks tan to me and I think the roots are supposed to be darker according to the standard. All your babies are beautiful!

Bizzymammabee · 06-09-2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Dina_Nichole

Hey guys, this is nothing serious but more or less a curious question. I just got off the phone with a family member that also has a yorkie. I swear sometimes I don't even know why I talk to her. She's always comparing my girls with her little girl. She has said some pretty rude comments about them and today she really annoyed me.

She called and asked if I recieved a picture she sent. I never recieved it and asked what was wrong. She said it was a yorkie that she was thinking of buying. She then goes on to tell me how perfect this little girl is. As she's telling me about this girl, she was comparing her to mine the entire time. Then she says that each of mine have something pretty, but this girl has it all.

I couldn't even believe she said it.

Did I take that wrong? I was pretty quiet and then she said she wanted one that had a tan head, not like my girls or the girl she has now. Well, I then told her that Pia does have a tan head and she told me she didn't. I said nicely that Trixie's head has a few differen't colors, Paisley's head is blonde but a lot of tan is coming in and Pia is tan.

Am I wrong? She would not let up on this and now I'm curious. It surely doesn't matter to me, but I would like to know if I'm wrong. Pia's head to me has always been without a doubt tan. The roots are darker tan than the ends, but to me it is tan. She said Pia's head is gold. I'm not even sure what gold is considered.

Sorry this is so long. I'm just curious to know if I've been wrong this entire time. Either way I'm not telling her, hahaha!!

Here are two pictures I just took the other day. If she isn't tan, could someone show me one with a tan head.

Oh for the love of god why do people need to be so catty. Not sure how you continued a conversation with her. Personally I love your babies.

My guess is that was the big green monster speaking through her. Envy and cattiness are so not traits that I care to deal with.

Dina_Nichole · 06-09-2008, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Bizzymammabee

Oh for the love of god why do people need to be so catty. Not sure how you continued a conversation with her. Personally I love your babies.

My guess is that was the big green monster speaking through her. Envy and cattiness are so not traits that I care to deal with.

Amen to that and thank you.

leucothea · 06-09-2008, 10:36 AM

Ask her what her "natural" hair color is? That may shut her up....

That little Pia is a gorgeous little ham

LuvmyYorkies2 · 06-09-2008, 10:37 AM

I'm not really good at the "coloring" thing either but what exactly does she mean but the having it "all"??!! Does she even know??? Do you have a picture of the little girl she's talking about purchasing? Either way, I think Pia is just as beautiful as they come.....and maybe she does too....just doesn't want to admit it..hehehe

Dina_Nichole · 06-09-2008, 10:37 AM

Thanks everyone and like most of you I'm clueless on what is considered right and wrong when it comes to color. Heck, when I first got Trixie I had no idea all yorkies weren't like her.

When I found out about her hair possibly changing I was upset, LOL. I loved how black it was and I didn't want it to change. I guess I got my wish because she's still as dark as ever.

As long as they are healthy, that is all I really care about.

Dina_Nichole · 06-09-2008, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by LuvmyYorkies2

I'm not really good at the "coloring" thing either but what exactly does she mean but the having it "all"??!! Does she even know??? Do you have a picture of the little girl she's talking about purchasing? Either way, I think Pia is just as beautiful as they come.....and maybe she does too....just doesn't want to admit it..hehehe

I have no I idea what she was trying to get at. It just seems like she's always targeting Pia. She makes some comments about the others, but always goes back to Pia.

I never recieved a picture and I'm starting to wonder if she actually sent one. Maybe she just felt like calling and cutting on my babies. I can defiantely see her doing that. Sad but totally her.

06-09-2008, 10:15 AM	#1
Dina_Nichole I Love My Munchkins! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: My Babies ♥'s! Posts: 8,765	Am I wrong?? Hey guys, this is nothing serious but more or less a curious question. I just got off the phone with a family member that also has a yorkie. I swear sometimes I don't even know why I talk to her. She's always comparing my girls with her little girl. She has said some pretty rude comments about them and today she really annoyed me. She called and asked if I recieved a picture she sent. I never recieved it and asked what was wrong. She said it was a yorkie that she was thinking of buying. She then goes on to tell me how perfect this little girl is. As she's telling me about this girl, she was comparing her to mine the entire time. Then she says that each of mine have something pretty, but this girl has it all. I couldn't even believe she said it. Did I take that wrong? I was pretty quiet and then she said she wanted one that had a tan head, not like my girls or the girl she has now. Well, I then told her that Pia does have a tan head and she told me she didn't. I said nicely that Trixie's head has a few differen't colors, Paisley's head is blonde but a lot of tan is coming in and Pia is tan. Am I wrong? She would not let up on this and now I'm curious. It surely doesn't matter to me, but I would like to know if I'm wrong. Pia's head to me has always been without a doubt tan. The roots are darker tan than the ends, but to me it is tan. She said Pia's head is gold. I'm not even sure what gold is considered. Sorry this is so long. I'm just curious to know if I've been wrong this entire time. Either way I'm not telling her, hahaha!! Here are two pictures I just took the other day. If she isn't tan, could someone show me one with a tan head. Attached Thumbnails __________________ I My Lil Furballs!! Pia Mojo ~ Trixie Murphy ~ Paisley Max

06-09-2008, 10:20 AM	#2
Sloan Luv Love LOVE My Boys! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: San Luis Obispo, CA Posts: 2,220	Oh she's beautiful. I love that second picture of her....what a darling little girl Pia is. I'm not an expert on yorkie colors but she sure looks tan to me. Don't let her get to you...I know it's hard. People who do so much "comparing" often have some insecurity issues....it's pretty obvious that she does. Does she try to "one up" you on other things too? __________________ Derby , Jockey & Baci's Mom

06-09-2008, 10:22 AM	#3
hasrv4fun Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 496	she is beautiful OMG how pretty and gold does she think your baby has to be to be ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS ???? Don't let her get under your skin girl - sounds like a evil jealous person is trying to rile you up. Ignore her and if you choose not to ignore her -just remember that i always have room for one more - especially that pretty __________________ Helen & Furkids HAVE YOU HUGGED YOUR YORKIE (or any dog)TODAY

06-09-2008, 10:23 AM	#4
abbey lee Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: San Marcos, TX Posts: 843	Hm...that's very weird. Sounds like a weird type of person to say any of those things. I mean, it is not really a competition. I would be pretty annoyed if someone said ANYTHING bad about my baby. But you should just blow her off...she sounds weird. Just ignore her comments bc they don't matter. You and me and lots of other people know they your babies are gorgeous. Maybe she is jealous?? BC honestly, and I have always thought this, Pia is THE most gorgeous yorkie I have ever seen. And yes her head is TAN! __________________ Chelsey & Abbey We love and miss you MINNIE. Never far from our thoughts, Rest In Peace

06-09-2008, 10:25 AM	#6
TootiesMom and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana Posts: 4,109	no matter what you call it, that little girl is simply beautiful! I can't imagine a prettier little girl, well except mine of course... LOL.... She has such a perfect tiny face, your relative is just jealous because she can't have one that precious! I always LOVE looking at pics of your babies... don't let her get to you, your baby is a doll! d __________________ Donna's little herd.... Tooties Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?271687 Hopeys Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?448723 and Tinker, TBone(RIP) Laci .. OH, and Me-Kitty(RIP)

06-09-2008, 10:29 AM	#7
flgurl69 <3 My Little Bella Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Cape Coral, Florida Posts: 2,143	I don't have a clue about coloring but whatever color it is called Pia's coloring is pretty. IMHO your family member sounds insecure and jealous. __________________ Official Member of The cRaZy Club Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none. William Shakespeare

06-09-2008, 10:31 AM	#8
Dina_Nichole I Love My Munchkins! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: My Babies ♥'s! Posts: 8,765	Thanks everyone. It doesn't matter to me what her hair color is, but I really was curious after everything she said to me. I really don't get her and why she says ignorant things. She has never ever said anything nice to me about my babies. It is so sad because her little girl is just precious. I'd like to steal her, LOL!! I'm so afraid that if she gets this new "perfect" girl, then her other will be pushed to the side. She annoyed me but I'mnot upset by her comments. I was just truly wondering if I was wrong about Pia's color, hahaha. Even if I am, I refuse to tell her. She would love that too much!! __________________ I My Lil Furballs!! Pia Mojo ~ Trixie Murphy ~ Paisley Max

06-09-2008, 10:32 AM	#9
Lexie Blue MY 3...COMPLETE ME! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: California Posts: 587	I know what you mean; sometimes there's just a little something in between the lines. But don't worry about it; Pia is absolutely gorgeous. She looks tan to me and I think the roots are supposed to be darker according to the standard. All your babies are beautiful! __________________ SYLVIA'sLEXIE BLUE MOLLY JOGLORY "B"

06-09-2008, 10:36 AM	#12
leucothea Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southwest Harbor, ME Posts: 189	Ask her what her "natural" hair color is? That may shut her up.... That little Pia is a gorgeous little ham __________________ Nancy, Ceasar, Princess and Cleo Myst Haven Yorkies Plus 4

06-09-2008, 10:37 AM	#13
LuvmyYorkies2 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southern Maryland Posts: 1,739	I'm not really good at the "coloring" thing either but what exactly does she mean but the having it "all"??!! Does she even know??? Do you have a picture of the little girl she's talking about purchasing? Either way, I think Pia is just as beautiful as they come.....and maybe she does too....just doesn't want to admit it..hehehe __________________ Yolanda I Love My Girls Diva & Foxxy & Lexi