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abbie's mom · 12-28-2007, 01:17 PM

Connie, I am so very very sorry for this tragic loss.

Hugs and prayers for comfort coming your way...

ada & abigail

yorkiegirl83 · 12-28-2007, 01:18 PM

I'm very sorry for your loss, I know your heart must be broken.

We never expect a tragedy to occur and there's nothing we can do to make the pain feel better but to give it time

.

Once, my yorkie poo Bentley (he was 5 months old) ran out the front door when my little sister opened it coming home from school. The school was right across the street and Bentley saw all the children running everywhere and BOLTED across the street during the heaviest traffic time of the day. He could have easily been hit. And you know what I did? I froze. I didn't call or chase after him I was so stunned. Luckily my husband was home and ran after him. God only knows what would have happened if he didn't. I still beat myself up over what if's.

But honestly you had no idea that would happen and it was just what it was -- an accident

.

I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers <3

Lilacss · 12-28-2007, 01:22 PM

I am so sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wylie's Mom · 12-28-2007, 01:26 PM

OMG OMG, my heart is just breaking for you. I could hardly read this. I am SO SO SO sorry for the pain you must feel. Please also, when you can, remember all the LOVE you gave this little darling. He would want you do to that. I'm so sorry, Connie.

LunasMomma · 12-28-2007, 01:34 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss

It was not your fault, accidents happen

I hope and pray that you'll come to see that it wasn't your fault, but a tragic accident.

We sure do all we can to protect our little ones, but sometimes they just have a mind of their own and a thirst for adventure, and of course they aren't aware of the dangers out there.

Again, I'm so very sorry

Crickettsmom · 12-28-2007, 01:35 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss. Please do not blame yourself, accidents happen, that is why they are called an accident. You are in my prayers!!

YorkieShadow · 12-28-2007, 01:36 PM

Im so sorry hun, RIP sweet baby.

TLC · 12-28-2007, 02:00 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. It was not your fault, you love him dearly and you did your very best to care for him. He loves you too and he will always love you.

I can't imagine how you feel, time will heal your pain.

I am sorry if this is out of line, but I am going to post it just in case you might be interested...I just came across a thread where a family has 2 boyz that they need to 'rehome' - they sound like wonderful boyz, maybe they both could help you heal, they need a loving home and you are such a wonderful Mom, maybe they would be just what you need right now.

http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=109214

Anyway, I am sorry if I upset you even more by posting about the 2 boyz, it's not at all what I wanted to do. But I also didn't want to pass them by, just in case it was a perfect match to help your pain of your loss of Bentley.

**** HUGS ****

Little Bit · 12-28-2007, 02:11 PM

I am so sorry! What a tragic accident! Please don't beat yourself up.

Hugs,

Nancy

zoeybear · 12-28-2007, 02:13 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Your story made me cry. I have a Schnauzer that bolts any time the door is open. My worst fear has come true for you. Please don't blame yourself. It was an accident. I hope you find some comfort here. It sounds like you gave him all the love he could hold while he was here. That is the best you can do.

HallTx1203 · 12-28-2007, 02:21 PM

I am so sorry for your loss....I think we have all been in the same situation you described....Little one gets out and has that "I am free and you can't catch me" attitude....Please do not blame yourself....It was a tragic accident....
I will be thinking of you

Joyce

scoobiedooiscoo · 12-28-2007, 03:28 PM

i know its really hard to not blame yourself but it really isnt your fault at all. they are fast little buggers and like you said its a game to them. he was having fun. i am sooooo sorry for your loss and will keep you and your family in our prayers.

red98vett · 12-28-2007, 03:46 PM

Rest in Peace little Bentley - you sound like you had a wonderful life and I'm grateful too that you didn't suffer....

I'm so sorry for your loss.

littlewhip · 12-28-2007, 04:06 PM

Iam so very sorry for your loss, It is not your fault, accidents happen, My heart is breaking for you, sending you prayer and hugs...RIP Bentley sweet baby.

Sophie Bella · 12-28-2007, 04:14 PM

I can tell by your pictures of Bentley that he was one spoiled little baby! He was so lucky to have had such a wonderful loving mommy, and to have lived such a happy life.

12-28-2007, 01:26 PM	#19
Wylie's Mom Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Phoenix, AZ Posts: 35,889 Blog Entries: 2	OMG OMG, my heart is just breaking for you. I could hardly read this. I am SO SO SO sorry for the pain you must feel. Please also, when you can, remember all the LOVE you gave this little darling. He would want you do to that. I'm so sorry, Connie. __________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann \| Pfeiffer \| Marcel Verdel Purcell \| Wylie \| Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨°

12-28-2007, 01:34 PM	#20
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	I'm so sorry for your loss It was not your fault, accidents happen I hope and pray that you'll come to see that it wasn't your fault, but a tragic accident. We sure do all we can to protect our little ones, but sometimes they just have a mind of their own and a thirst for adventure, and of course they aren't aware of the dangers out there. Again, I'm so very sorry __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

12-28-2007, 01:35 PM	#21
Crickettsmom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Kentucky Posts: 1,235	I am so very sorry for your loss. Please do not blame yourself, accidents happen, that is why they are called an accident. You are in my prayers!! __________________ Jennifer, Proud mom to Micah, Candy, Nikki, Gizmo, and Crickett (gone but NEVER forgotten)

12-28-2007, 02:00 PM	#23
TLC Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island Posts: 7,247	I am so sorry for your loss. It was not your fault, you love him dearly and you did your very best to care for him. He loves you too and he will always love you. I can't imagine how you feel, time will heal your pain. I am sorry if this is out of line, but I am going to post it just in case you might be interested...I just came across a thread where a family has 2 boyz that they need to 'rehome' - they sound like wonderful boyz, maybe they both could help you heal, they need a loving home and you are such a wonderful Mom, maybe they would be just what you need right now. http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=109214 Anyway, I am sorry if I upset you even more by posting about the 2 boyz, it's not at all what I wanted to do. But I also didn't want to pass them by, just in case it was a perfect match to help your pain of your loss of Bentley. ** HUGS ** __________________ Adopt Donate Foster www.yorkie911rescue.com Last edited by TLC; 12-28-2007 at 02:01 PM.

12-28-2007, 02:11 PM	#24
Little Bit Tiny Dog Big Heart Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 6,205	I am so sorry! What a tragic accident! Please don't beat yourself up. Hugs, Nancy __________________ Little Bit

12-28-2007, 01:17 PM	#16
abbie's mom Lovin' 2 Girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: VA Posts: 3,593 Blog Entries: 4	Connie, I am so very very sorry for this tragic loss. Hugs and prayers for comfort coming your way... ada & abigail

12-28-2007, 01:18 PM	#17
yorkiegirl83 Love My Furbabies! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: somewhere Posts: 4,427	I'm very sorry for your loss, I know your heart must be broken. We never expect a tragedy to occur and there's nothing we can do to make the pain feel better but to give it time . Once, my yorkie poo Bentley (he was 5 months old) ran out the front door when my little sister opened it coming home from school. The school was right across the street and Bentley saw all the children running everywhere and BOLTED across the street during the heaviest traffic time of the day. He could have easily been hit. And you know what I did? I froze. I didn't call or chase after him I was so stunned. Luckily my husband was home and ran after him. God only knows what would have happened if he didn't. I still beat myself up over what if's. But honestly you had no idea that would happen and it was just what it was -- an accident . I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers <3

12-28-2007, 01:22 PM	#18
Lilacss Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: B.C, Canada Posts: 787	I am so sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

12-28-2007, 01:36 PM	#22
YorkieShadow BANNED! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: USA Posts: 9,999	Im so sorry hun, RIP sweet baby.

12-28-2007, 02:13 PM	#25
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	I am so sorry for your loss. Your story made me cry. I have a Schnauzer that bolts any time the door is open. My worst fear has come true for you. Please don't blame yourself. It was an accident. I hope you find some comfort here. It sounds like you gave him all the love he could hold while he was here. That is the best you can do. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

12-28-2007, 02:21 PM	#26
HallTx1203 Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: CENTRAL TEXAS Posts: 1,867	I am so sorry for your loss....I think we have all been in the same situation you described....Little one gets out and has that "I am free and you can't catch me" attitude....Please do not blame yourself....It was a tragic accident.... I will be thinking of you Joyce __________________ Joyce and Shelby

12-28-2007, 03:28 PM	#27
scoobiedooiscoo Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 1,423	i know its really hard to not blame yourself but it really isnt your fault at all. they are fast little buggers and like you said its a game to them. he was having fun. i am sooooo sorry for your loss and will keep you and your family in our prayers. __________________ [url]http://www.dogster.com/dogs/585863

12-28-2007, 03:46 PM	#28
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Rest in Peace little Bentley - you sound like you had a wonderful life and I'm grateful too that you didn't suffer.... I'm so sorry for your loss. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

12-28-2007, 04:06 PM	#29
littlewhip Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: wiith my furbabys Posts: 8,874	Iam so very sorry for your loss, It is not your fault, accidents happen, My heart is breaking for you, sending you prayer and hugs...RIP Bentley sweet baby. __________________

12-28-2007, 04:14 PM	#30
Sophie Bella Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Washington State Posts: 70	I can tell by your pictures of Bentley that he was one spoiled little baby! He was so lucky to have had such a wonderful loving mommy, and to have lived such a happy life.