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Originally Posted by LunasMomma  Thanks. I guess I need some unbiased people to help me.
I've been doing this for 15 years, btw. Every time those kids needed anything, I've been there for them. Whenever they'd get sick she'd send them here to make sure we all get sick too. And I would baby them and care for them like my own. We have had them every weekend, school holiday, and all summer long every year all this time. I guess I resent them a little because my husband spends no time with me at all. He's even cancelled our vacations because she'd find out about it and drop them off unnannounced. I probably should get some therapy or something I think I'm finally at my breaking point here 
I have been taking care of all of them and I guess I'm just worn out after 15 years of this. Thanks for being honest, I guess I owe my husband an apology. |
I do agree that most of the frustration stemmed party from the bimbo. Honestly count yourself as loved and blessed...he chose to be with you when he was down and sick because of who you are and how good you are to him. Please don't beat yourself up too much.
Any family situation where there is a step anything has issues. Your doing well if you ask me.
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