I hope that I didn't upset anyone. I am so happy that there is a place for everyone to share both Happy and Sad stories. I think what I was trying to say, is that, I wish there were no sadnes and no hurting for any baby out there. It makes me so upset thinking of suffering (babies and parents). I am very compationate, I guess that's why I find myself reading those type of threads. I worry alot about these babies (and parents), I pray for them and cry for them. I just wish the world were kinder.