Glad all is going well!
We all can only handle so much sadness. One has to find a balance, just do what you're good at doing, do stuff you enjoy and what interests you. When you can lend support do so, but do not feel guilty when you can't. I know I've gone past my threshold a number of times, and it's not a good place to be. I take breaks from certain forums when needed, I think people understand.... we know where your heart is...