As a friend you can be a great example to her. When my friends purchase a toy dog I try to help them prepare by being excited for them. I usually make baby blankets and a gift basket (including a book on the breed of choise). When I find great items online I send them the link. When I find really good information on food,grooming or general care I send them the link.
If you admonish her you will cut off communication and the chance to educate your friend and help protect a tiny life until Mommy gets a bit more knowledge. As with parenting of any kind,mentoring is the best way to learn.
You might suggest a sling or stroller so noone can touch the new baby if she is going to take him out. Remind her that the baby will need LOTS of water and rest while traveling. Get her a travel food and water set. She is insisting on taking the baby,you can help her by giving her ideas on how to protect her baby.
My suggestions do not mean that I agree that she should be taking the baby out,,,I do not. But you are not going to change her mind,therefore you can help protect this littleone by helping the mommy.
Your friend has been through something very scary and has a need for joy in her life. We dont always make the best decisions when we are trying to hang on to joy.
Bless you both |