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Originally Posted by maggiesmom_2007  Donna, I would so love to meet you, I have had to curb my bluntness because I was always being Chastised for hurting peoples feelings. I so understand.
Like Mary I to heard rumours being spread about a breeder I had become aquainted with and after having to constantly hear this person being maligned I asked her. She let me know the situation and I found the rumours to be unfounded and have since distanced myself from the originator of the rumours. The breeder that was being talked about is now a very good friend and has helped me tremendously with breeding and showing.
"My grandaddy used to tell me to never judge a person until you've walked a mile in their shoes." |
Well, I hear your going to NY! We'll get to meet there then
I'm always in NY if the good lord willing!
The reason for the thread is this....Just before you pre-judge because something didn't go your way, or something was said you didn't like, or things wasn't done according to how one thought it should go don't presume to think it's always like that unless you actually asked why it was that way, or why it was said ect....Yes, I can be a biatch, rude sometimes, insenstive according to some but remember there is a reason behind the way I am. I'm not just this way for the heck of it...if I say something like, I don't like that yorkie in the show ring, or that's incorrect or I don't like that person or this person I have reasons and usually it's a pretty darn good one unless I made a mistake and of course then I admit the mistake was made and correct it. I have a close circle of friends and they know I speak my mind and always will.
No need to sugar coat anything....I did that for many years and was walked on by doing so. At least if I have something to say I say it and it's up front, if that is a fault so be it. It's my fault and if you can't live with it move on but let me assure that we all at some point say things we shouldn't but be a big person and own up to it! If one thing I've learned in my personal life and outside life is, no one will take care of me but me!