You have beautiful hair Marci! I hate fly-aways. I'm not a leave in-conditioner girl. I do like a couple wash out conditioners though - I like a couple of Samy's products - even though my hair is pretty thick my favorite is his Fat Hair line
FAT Hair “0” Calories THICKENING products are revolutionary! -- if you have Walgreens up there, you should be able to buy his product. He is often on HSN. So I know you can find his products at
HSN.com Official Site
I also like Biolage products & Infusium 23
if all else fails - a bit of Static Guard sprayed on your hair brush helps - smells strange - but it does work