I don't think you were harsh at all. If this boy is serious about being friends with your sons, he will prove it by doing so after summer and for the rest of the time they see each other. This boy needs to learn that there are consequences for his actions. It's a shame that his parents/step parent have not taught him this.
Having said that, Maybe Lincoln can tell you if he wishes to befriend this boy. Kids sometimes (not necessarily all the time) have a six sense about other kids. If your son feels comfortable with this boy coming over, maybe the three of you could come to an agreement about it. The very first time he messes up, he's outta there-zero tolerance!
Good luck. |