My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years just broke up with me. We have lived together for the past 2 years, and have been talking about marriage recently...everything was fine. And then he left a letter in my bag when I was packing to head back up to school for week...a cop-out I know...
I have 7 babies (6 yorkies and a cat)...and I have to move back in with my mom because I have nowhere else to go. My mom has 2 dogs already, and she lives in a nice neighborhood that has very restrictive policies on building. We entertained the idea of building a little heated and air-conditioned kennel out back, but it's strictly prohibited. We're thinking about all options, even enclosing a space in the garage for a small kennel area and putting a space heater in there. She has a bonus room that is the only place I can stay, and I can keep the cat up there and probably 2 dogs a time in the house with me, but her house is very nice and she doesn't want it in disarray (which I understand). So we're exhausting all options here...
Selling or rehoming ANY of my animals is just NOT an option...it's NOT going to happen. We're going to start looking in the paper for a house that someone is selling or renting that has no down payment or closing costs right now...because I can afford monthly payments, but not a big total in the beginning (sorry if that is confusing). But I have no idea how difficult that's going to be to find or if I'll even be able to have a mortgage on my own house...so for right now I have to try and figure out what to do...
I am so upset about everything...I feel like this is a movie and I'm sitting here watching it and not living it. I've been crying for 17 hours straight...and I need some advice...I can't think anymore...
does anyone have any suggestions? anything would be GREATLY appreciated... you have no idea. thanks guys...